When I was applying for grad school programs I briefly got hooked on it. As part of the interview process you have to be on your game 100% of the time, beaming how smart you are and all your academic accomplishments at other very smart people. After every interview I was just so sick of being smart and wanted to empty out my brain with the peace of idiocy. The Bachelor was perfect for that.
I actually hung out with one of the guys that helps do the story lines for these shows. He said they pick the biggest train wrecks they can find. He said the more childhood trauma they have, the better. Just add alcohol and the need for fame and you have a show. And he wondered why I didn’t want to go out with him…👀
Currently watching UnReal which is a drama/dark comedy based upon the behind the scenes of shows like The Bachelor. Makes you wonder how true UnReal is to the real thing.
I remember the very first season of Big Brother in the UK, and it was great - it was just like that. They were mostly reasonably normal people, interacting like reasonably decent people - with the bit of an exception of one guy (Nasty Nick) who was more manipulative when it came to getting people to vote the way he wanted. But even he was purely someone playing the game to try to win the money, rather than being a crazy person craving attention or something.
Subsequent seasons just got crazier and crazier (and worse and worse) though.
I went on a date with a spanish girl that wrote for TV novella (Spanish Soap operas) she was everything I hoped she would not be : damaged, mean, a drama queen, needy and crazy as fuck. She found the perfect job though...
It's hard to tell if I should feel bad for the contestants who are clearly being manipulated by the producers. Like yeah, they are raging narcissists most of the time, but maybe they are that way because of trouble childhoods or some shit. But I just can't relate to the type of person who agrees to go on a national TV show where they have no control over how they will be portrayed.
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u/Tar9etPractice 28d ago
The bachelor/bachelorette