r/AskReddit • u/iamaaronmullen • 23d ago
What is something a lot of people find attractive that is actually a turn off for you?
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u/ImpressiveMiddle0 23d ago
A lot of these are things the majority of people find unattractive.
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u/RyeBreadTrips 23d ago
thats why you gotta sort by controversial
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u/Blackwater_7 23d ago
this is the best advice i read in reddit
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u/chaser676 23d ago
It's good and bad. You get actual real answers, but you have to deal with the drama associated with it.
From what I learned in controversial for this thread; people with tattoos don't like hearing that some people don't find tattoos attractive.
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u/3N4Cr 23d ago
True, like how is a bad fake tan at over 1k upvotes? Who likes bad fake tans?
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u/neutronstarcoIlision 23d ago
All the comments combined sound like the cast of Love Island.
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u/toxygen 23d ago
Cosmetics and plastic surgeries are much more common than we think.
I knew a coworker who had a smile on his face every single day, even when he was kind of irritated, his mouth would just sit in a smile. I was like, "I wish I could do that," then I found out he just had cheek implants to raise his cheeks and I felt dumb
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u/wwaxwork 23d ago
Yep. People get pissy when I suggest Paul Rudd has had work done. Guy has had more botox, chemical peels and treatments than can be counted to stay looking like he does. He just has is done well, done in small increments so no sudden changes and done often so he stays looking fresh. I would suggest at a a high enough disposable income point and up it would be hard to find a man or woman who hasn't had some work done, even if it's just an injectable, something to make their hair grow, eyebrows shaped. I think most people below that income point don't understand just what is available.
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u/fuchkafem 23d ago
Getting my brows shaped every couple of months costs me like $10. This makes me think that once you're past a certain income bracket, procedures that middle-class people would consider "invasive" become increasingly normal, e.g. mostly injectables like botox and filler.
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u/gloriousholes___ 23d ago
When I was in my late teens/early 20’s, I would skip car payments in order to afford my lip filler/ Botox. It can be toxic
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u/AsymptoticAbyss 23d ago
I can hear it omg. “HIIIIII IM CHLOEEEEE IM 22, IM FROM ESSEEEEEX, AND IM AN INFLUENCAAAAAHHH”
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u/WatermelonMusk 23d ago
"MY FRIEND'S WOULD SAY I'M A BIT RANDOM, BUT I THINK I'M THE LIFE OF THE PARTY"
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u/GaveYourMomAIDS 23d ago
The fact that the skater kids in your school were vaping instead of smoking cigarettes makes me feel old...
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u/Llama_Mia 23d ago
Lap dances. One or two past girlfriends took it upon themselves to give me a lap dance, and it just feels silly and awkward being on the receiving end.
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u/neo_sporin 23d ago
My wife and I feel this way about role playing of any sort. We just end up getting the giggles.
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u/boogetyboo 23d ago
Sometimes we role play during foreplay but honestly it mostly involves bad accents, sexual innuendo and terrible puns. We're usually both laughing, it's fun. I don't think sex always needs to be solemn passionate lovemaking. Part of what attracts me to him is how funny he is, and the role playing stuff turns me on but not for the reasons you might think.
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u/Utkarsh_Rastogi15 23d ago
"Feels silly and awkward" I totally felt that even though I've never experienced it
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u/IronZoinked 23d ago
Baby talk, or whatever you want to call it. Makes me cringe. Talk like an adult.
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u/Halbera 23d ago
Awwh who's a grumpy dumpy wittle baby?
You are! Yes yooouuuu. Bahhhh, smile! Come ooon....
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u/Stratahoo 23d ago edited 23d ago
When someone displays their wealth frequently with luxury handbags or clothes or cars etc.
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u/giraffees4justice 23d ago
As a car enthusiast I feel some type of way about this. That being said my cars attract way more dudes than women anyways.
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u/waterloograd 23d ago
I think the difference is that you are showing off your interests instead of your money. It is pretty easy to figure out who is showing off their money vs their interest in cars once you talk to them. From a distance obviously it sort of blends together
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u/NruticatKxiss 23d ago
When a dude licks his lips or teeth like a fuckboy/thug.
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u/lookoutforthetrain_0 23d ago
I'm sorry, if you see me licking my lips, it's probably random. Just gotta do that sometimes.
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u/TheOneCorrectOpinion 23d ago
I'm on to you lizard person, your control of the US government won't last forever
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u/jkw91 23d ago edited 23d ago
Dudes who always play their acoustic guitar and sing. Once in a while is fine but not all the time. Anyway, here’s Wonderwall.
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u/xtinies 23d ago
A guy once serenaded me on a beach with his acoustic guitar, singing Sexual Healing. I couldn’t figure out if it was a dare or he genuinely thought it was a good idea. Super awkward.
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u/canadian_webdev 23d ago
A guy once serenaded me on a beach with his acoustic guitar, singing Sexual Healing.
I was shit faced and sang this to my now wife infront of my now father in law at a Canada Day event.
I still get triggered by the cringe..
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u/AuRevoirBaron 23d ago
I read that as “a Canada Dry” event and thought to myself “this guy really needs to get his shit together”
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u/_McGEE 23d ago
My ex girlfriend asked me to stop constantly singing Wonderwall….. I said maybe
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u/Anjelikka 23d ago
Ass implants that give the "diaper butt" look. I mean, i like a nice round booty like anyone else, but these diaper asses look horrendous.
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u/sparkythewondersnail 23d ago
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u/Baxobhone 23d ago
Look at Kim Kardashian in a bikini nowadays. That's diaper butt.
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u/Baxobhone 23d ago
Pretty much. Imagine of you had a big but proportional butt and then added more. That's what it looks like
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u/lillyrose2489 23d ago
Any level of machismo or physical aggression in men. I do not want you to get mad in my defense over little things. I also do not want to see you punch a wall in your rage. I will actually end up worrying that you are going to pick a dumb fight or break something over a stupid thing. Your rage makes me nervous even if it's not directed at me. It's not a turn on.
Like sure, if someone is actually trying to hurt me or creep on me, I don't mind a guy stepping in to help. But it should be a last resort. I much prefer a man who wants to just leave or de-escalate a situation as calmly as possible.
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u/KingLime26 23d ago edited 23d ago
Yes!! On my first date with my now boyfriend, we were in a drive through to get drinks and these crackheads in front of us got out and started yelling saying we were staring at them (we weren't) and instead of getting all aggressive back, my bf calmly told them to just get back in their car and completely de-escalated the situation. I told him months later that the situation was something that made me like him even more, and really showed his character. He was shocked, he thought I would've wanted him to fight them or something, but he doesn't like to fight unless it's totally necessary.
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u/Shitstakened 23d ago
Do you or him remember the details of that? I'm interested in ways one peacefully de-escalates conflict without abasing themselves to appease disrespectful people
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u/Booblesnootle 23d ago
Sometimes, appeasing disrespectful people is how you deescalate the situation, especially when they are people you will never see again.
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u/I_Like_Trains1543 23d ago
Had a cracked out dude scream at me for having the audacity to step out of the train station early in the morning, and he proceeded to tell me that
a). I was somehow a murderer, even though I can't recall murdering anyone
b.) I was about to kill him
c.) That he welcomed me murdering him because then we would get to meet in hell and we could fight there I guess?!?!
All this in less than a minute.
The situation was scary as fuck but since he was between me and the door, I couldn't really go back inside. So I just started walking down the street. He kept screaming at me for a while, but once I got off the block he got back to doing whatever crackheads do at 5am.
Unless someone is literally tackling you of threatening you with a weapon, walk away towards a more crowded area. This has kept me out of danger, and that's good because my area is full of crazies for some reason.
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u/OpinionatedNonsense 23d ago
I've shared this preference and men have literally accused me of lying about it! I'm just looking for a man, not an angry gorilla.
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u/Coc0tte 23d ago edited 22d ago
Men with large chins. Idk why, but I tend to find them unattractive.
Edit : Yes I'm aware that the Crimson chin exists, no need to make 99 comments about it.
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u/abaloneyhasnoname 23d ago
Giga-Chad would like a word with you.
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u/Cmcgregor0928 23d ago
I guess the hands of AJ Hawk isn't the only thing that grosses you out then
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u/bobagret 23d ago
Possessiveness.
“Talk to my woman/man, you’ll have me to mess with” is so unattractive me- feels like the person sees their partner as an object in their life that they need to defend, not a full ass human who they can trust.
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u/floatingwithobrien 23d ago
I barely have enough energy to keep track of myself. My partner can do what they want and if they end up cheating, that's good to know and not something I would've been able to prevent, anyway.
The person they cheat with is not to blame... Ain't nobody else signed on to make this relationship work except me and my partner.
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u/VitaIncerta666 23d ago
The whole "barely legal" thing or fetishization of young women. I'm an adult, teenagers don't appeal to me personally.
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u/CatchingRays 23d ago
Muppet lashes
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u/bitchachayerbatera 23d ago edited 22d ago
Most fascinating thing. I was mocked in school for having extremely long, thick lashes, spider-eye they would call me. Now they're running to salons trying to get that very thing done for a lot of money. I once had a dude in a club try to rip off my "fake" lashes, he was so pissed at "fake everything", he felt he needed to "teach me a lesson". He made my lid pop off my eye socket with an audible smack.
Edit: Oh wowzers. Did not see this comment blow-up coming. So, to clarify a few things:
- What happened next was that I yelled at the dude "wtf is wrong with you?!", slapped him in the face and walked away. Luckily he didn't follow me, and we didn't run into each other that night again.
- The comments have made me realize that this was assault, something that I never saw that way due to being used to much more intense aussault experiences, so I never pressed charges or had him thrown out of the club, back then I didn't think of it as assault, I just considered it really bad behavior. Thank you everyone for the validating and encouraging words.
- Regarding a picture, I had one up for a while, then this comment blew up and I am adamant about protecting my privacy, so while I understand the curiosity, please also understand my need for anonymity.
Thanks again and have an awesome day/night everyone!
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u/Ljudet-Innan 23d ago
I am a 6’4” 250 lb bald man but I too was gifted with spectacular, long and full eyelashes. My wife and I have a boy and a girl and both of them inherited my lashes. My wife frequently expresses her jealousy.
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u/bitchachayerbatera 23d ago
Oh your daughter will be so happy about this one day! Here's to spider-eyes everywhere!
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u/StraightSho 23d ago
LoL that's funny as hell. I'm also a man that was blessed with long eyelashes and apparently from what I've been told mesmerizing eyes. It's always been my best feature and I'm not the least bit self conscious about it.
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u/urbanlulu 23d ago
literally how i feel about having big lips.
i got mocked by everyone growing up and was called fat lip by sooo many, and now all those same people who mocked me are now pumping themselves full of filler to have what i got naturally.
really funny how the tables turn hey?
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u/Hermonthia 23d ago
Designer clothes with very Obvious brand logos plastered on everything they wear.
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u/Jeten_Gesfakke 23d ago edited 23d ago
True designer clothes that aren't the top brands actually don't have this at all most of the time.
Edit: can't believe my most up voted comment ever is me being a typical armchair reddit expert
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u/Hermonthia 23d ago
Yes!! A lot of people don't know this. True designer clothes look very simple but have great quality. No need to plaster the logo everywhere!!
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u/techcaleb 23d ago
People are confusing designer clothes for hype-beast clothes. Granted there are some brands that are both...
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u/Dood567 23d ago
A lot of today's "Hypebeast" designer brands actually were designer at some point. They realized there's a lot of money in marketing to poorer people who want to look rich so they did.
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u/used_condominium 23d ago edited 23d ago
They still are, they just make some relatively cheap tees with lots of branding because it really pays the bills. They still have great ready to wear designs whose quality is par with the ones who don’t work in that market(Hermes, Balenciaga, BV, etc).
Same happens in the luxury car industry, every luxury car maker has an ugly gaudy suv now and in most cases it’s their best selling car, it can tarnish the brand a little but it pays for the nice stuff.
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u/LordJambrek 23d ago
I never understood why people kill for those louis vuitton handbags, it's a damn piece of brown leather with the same logo just slapped around it and they look horrible.
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u/Tinkeybird 23d ago edited 21d ago
I genuinely loved the look of the bag when I saw it for the first time 40 years ago. I was broke and could never justify the expense no matter how much I made. Fast forward 25 years (still hadn’t bought one) and I’m caring for my mother who is dying of stage IV Ovarian cancer. She put my name on a list for a Speedy 35 bag at the Louis Vuitton store. 6 months later the bag came in and she had an engraved heart fob made for it that said “Forever In My Heart”. It as her last gift to me. It is the single most cherished physical possession I own along with my grandmother’s wedding ring. I carry it for special occasions and my husband and daughter know I want to be cremated and my ashes kept in my Louis Vuitton Speedy bag instead of an urn (ashes obviously inside a bag) The first time I saw the bag in a Newman Marcus Holiday catalog I cut the picture out and carried it in my wallet for 25 years. It absolutely means the world to me and I love the style as much today as the first day I saw it.
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u/ashteatime 23d ago
When guys show how much money they have- expensive cars, clothes, jewelry, carrying a lot of cash, hustle culture. I just don't like people who are so obsessed with wealth and money and showing it off.
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u/gambit_- 23d ago
High pitched baby-like voice.
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u/thurn_und_taxis 23d ago
It’s interesting how men can have strong preferences for high voices or low voices. I have a pretty low voice for a woman and my college boyfriend (who in retrospect was kind of an asshole) used to tell me how he wished my voice was higher because it would be more feminine. Then the next guy I dated absolutely loved the fact that I had a low voice and said that really high voices were a turn off for him.
I don’t know if it’s just a coincidence, but the first guy who liked high voices tended to be attracted to younger women (not literal children as far as I knew, but 18-19 year olds), while the second guy tended to be attracted to older women (not like elderly women, just somewhat older than him).
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u/EmotionalCelery5989 23d ago
I have a low voice too and I’ve always been super insecure about it!
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u/PM-ME-YOUR-HANDBRA 23d ago
A girl in my friend group in high school had a very low breathy/raspy voice, and it was very uncomfortable because it made her so attractive to me. Like she was already quite pretty, but that voice made her an 11/10 and it was so hard not to ruin the friendship by admitting my feelings.
From a stranger on the internet: your voice is beautiful and so are you, and anyone who tries to make you feel differently about it is an asshole.
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u/EmotionalCelery5989 23d ago
Thank you for your kind comment. I never thought too much about my voice until some boys started speaking super low to me and laughing in elementary school and telling me that I sounded like a boy. Unfortunately that has stayed with me and sometimes I feel myself talking in a higher tone on purpose to make up for my insecurity.
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u/mulleceps 23d ago
It's honestly weird how such minor comments from our childhood can stay with us forever.
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u/urbanlulu 23d ago
i grew up with a girl who had a natural baby voice, she hated it cause no one ever took her seriously
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u/kia75 23d ago
I'm curious if she ever tried deepening her voice to sound more mature. I had a friend with a high baby voice that was promoted. She said one of the things her female boss told her to do was to deepen her voice and. To. Talk. Slower. in order to get more respect. She told me she was very insulted that her boss told her to do these things, she was talented and wouldn't change for other people! But sure enough, a few weeks later she followed her bosses advice and was getting a lot more respect and a lot more done.
I also can't help but wonder if some of the ladies mentioned in this thread who raise their voice around guys aren't doing the opposite, lowering their natural voice in order to get more respect.
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u/put_your_drinks_down 23d ago
I have a naturally high pitched voice and I absolutely lower my voice on purpose, especially at work, but in almost all settings. I do think it has helped me at work, and I’ve tried to, delicately, recommend to some female employees to try the same thing. Bullshit that I have to do it though, wish I could just talk in my normal voice without people commenting on it.
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u/ginns32 23d ago
Jessica from Love is Blind has entered the chat. She only used it when talking with the men.
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u/Scherzoh 23d ago
My wife and I just finished that show (and now I feel dirty). Jessica changing her voice just for the men (most of the time) was the weirdest shit. Apparently it's a thing, but doesn't make it any less weird.
That and she always looked like she was about to throw up.
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u/ChiquitaBananaKush 23d ago
Tbf she was drunk on the show 95% of the time.. She probably did throw up off cameras. lol
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u/Vladimir909 23d ago
Girls who act stupid in order to be perceived as damsels in distress. It's very unattractive to me especially if I know the girl is smart and competent to take care of herself.
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u/snugglbubbls 23d ago
When I started middle school, I thought acting dumb would win over my crush bc all the popular girls acted like that. Meanwhile, my teacher noticed but saw me making straight A's. She pulled me aside one day and said "don't ever downplay your intelligence." And that's one of the only things I can remember from middle school to this day. Lmao
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u/Ouchyhurthurt 23d ago
Pretending to be stupid when you are not. It’s not cute, it just makes me feel uncomfortable.
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u/the_other_Scaevitas 23d ago
I don’t have to pretend 😎
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u/superkp 23d ago
dude you're joking but holy shit I will take a legit moron over someone pretending any day.
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u/whatproblems 23d ago
Well preferably someone that recognizes themselves to be a moron. nothing worse than an over confident moron
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u/[deleted] 23d ago
To be fair, if they're self-aware enough to recognize themselves as a moron, they're way less of a moron than they could have been.
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u/CdrCosmonaut 23d ago
I remember the manager at my old job was complaining to one of the girls I worked with that he hated it when girls act stupid. Accused her of doing it, and told her to knock it off.
She replied, "Oh my gooooo-od! This isn't an act!"
...I was inclined to believe her.
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u/squigglyeyes 23d ago
Omg, I can picture my cousin and her oldest daughter. They are actually just airheads. I love em though. At least they have it in them to laugh at themselves when we bust out laughing at something dumb they said.
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u/Big-Improvement-1281 23d ago
Me at the kmart I worked at for like 3 weeks: "I'm not dumb. I just really don't care." (a sentiment likely shared by every teenager that had ever worked in a K-Mart.)
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u/HonestlyRespectful 23d ago
I think I remember working with you there lol Nobody cared, then it went out of business.
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u/1pt20oneggigawatts 23d ago
More offended that she was being called out for being fake than being called out for being stupid is fucking hilarious to me.
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u/shygrl__ 23d ago
Women that are deliberately rude and "bad bitch" energy. But like the negative type of energy
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u/NaughtyFox360 23d ago
Men or women who use the line "I'm not afraid to speak my mind," or "I'm opinionated." You're not a bold confident person...you're an asshole. Plenty of stuff I don't say in my head because it's inappropriate or mean.
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u/badaccount99 23d ago
Tact. Most people don't want to hear the blunt truth. Tact is the skill of telling people what they need to hear so that they eventually end up understanding the truth without being slapped in the face by it.
Being "not afraid to speak my mind" is a lack of having tact, it's not a good thing, it's a sign of poor impulse control and a huge turn-off.
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u/Bamres 23d ago
Yeah there's a big portion of people on social media who post like this but aren't really like that then others who embed the personality and are just insufferable to be around while claiming some sort of empowerment to any criticism.
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u/grimmyandmandy 23d ago
Men acting super cocky or tough, like that "macho" energy. Always hated it and I never understood the appeal.
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u/ImNotYourRealDaddy 23d ago edited 23d ago
So many men don't understand the difference between cocky and confident. It's so annoying.
Edit: I’m a gay dude so dudes replying with jabs at women ain’t doin’ shit to me, just yourself. That being said, yes, some women can’t tell the difference and I’ve also been duped a couple times. It happens, it’s life.
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u/RedditAtWorkIsBad 23d ago edited 23d ago
I read once that "confidence is the willingness to be vulnerable". I really like that definition. I've mentioned this to a number of people. Some get it right away. For some it simply doesn't compute.
Edit: removed political reference
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u/Elolzabeth1 23d ago
This is the first thing I thought and the difference between the two is oh so subtle but oh so important.
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u/socksnatcher 23d ago
Guys posing in front of cars. Instant turn off in dating profiles whenever I see one.
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u/handicapybara 23d ago
Once I was sitting in my mom’s car playing minecraft at the very back of the car while she was picking up my dad, and a bunch of teenage boys came up to the car and I thought they were about to steal the car. But nah, they just started taking pics and at one point one guy was holding a door like he was about to get in and drive. After their photo shoot they just left. I’ll never understand why people do these things 🤦🏻♀️
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u/Astronaut_Chicken 23d ago
Maaaaaan. Miss opportunity for a little fun embarrassment. I wouldn't have been able to resist.
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u/handicapybara 23d ago
Nah, I thought I was about to get kidnapped with the car and basically stayed frozen for a few minutes
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u/Jessicakirby8282 23d ago
Super muscular guys. I just have never gotten the appeal. You can be strong without looking like a bodybuilder
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u/TheBertinator3000 23d ago edited 23d ago
Most drug free bodybuilders actually don't look super huge until the shirt comes off.
I don't have a problem with people using them, but drugs have really skewed people's perspectives of what drug free bodybuilding looks like.
Edit: Look up the WNBF (World Natural Bodybuilding Federation), if you want to see what the creme de la creme of natural bodybuilding looks like. And even those people look less insane when they aren't super lean for the competition. You can only stay that lean for short periods of time.
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u/Flimsy_Tooth_4443 23d ago
Especially because it's waaaay more common than people think.
There'd be very few people on TV or in the movies who haven't used performance enhancing drugs to achieve their bodies, but in interviews it's always "just diet and exercise and a really good PT". They always leave out what's really going on so everyone works so hard towards these borderline impossible to get and maintain bodies with an unhealthy fervour.
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u/kingshit108 23d ago
People think Arnold was natural
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u/Jonny_RockandFit 23d ago
I had a mid twenties marine argue with me that Ronnie motherfucking coleman was natural; he was just massive because he outworked everyone. This was a full grown man who exercised rigorously 5+ days per week and was adamant that it was possible.
That was a massively eye opening day for me about how little people know about what's truly possible for the human body without pharmacological intervention.
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u/doge57 23d ago
I remember the BroScience guy making a joke about that. You think having a big pecs will make girls fall all over you, but all it really does is make every guy at the gym ask how much you bench
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u/cauchy37 23d ago
"You started lifting to get girls, but you quickly realized you do it to be better than people."
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u/Detronyx 23d ago
The "bad boy" thing. I don't get it. Why do people think a troublemaker is sexy? It somehow ties into the social media love for felons, which is also gross.
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u/Crazed_waffle_party 23d ago edited 23d ago
I read somewhere that women don't actually like criminals, but those who are willing to break the rules in fun ways that are ultimately benign. It's more about the carefree, energetic, and exciting attitude than the 'breaking the law'. Some people also have a hero complex and want to take on the role of the 'redeemer' in their own little fantasy
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u/lampcouchfireplace 23d ago
I think a lot of people find this quality attractive. Rules and social mores are often silly and adherence to them for the purpose of adherence is boring. Going skinny dipping or jumping a fence to stargaze or whatever is different than holding up a gas station. Most people don't want to date a criminal, just a rogue.
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u/Crazed_waffle_party 23d ago edited 23d ago
‘Rogue’ is a good word to describe them.
The key difference between a rogue and a criminal I think is victimization. Criminals create victims. Rogues generally don’t, except maybe the poor schlep that has to clean up a rogue’s graffiti art
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u/[deleted] 23d ago
Agree. When I think back to being in college and seeing girls saying they liked "bad boys," what that typically actually meant was that they liked guys who were fun, outgoing, confident, and liked to be social/do a lot of things. Riding a motorcycle, wearing a leather jacket and having a couple of girls you could call when you wanted to have a good time made you a "bad boy," not getting into barfights. Being a criminal really didn't have much to do with it, all told.
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u/Tough_Dish_9519 23d ago
Yeah anyone who disrespects me or people around me is an asshole not sexy in any way
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u/Vroomped 23d ago
Knew a girl who has a thing for bad guys. Finally went on a date with a well know awful guy. Texted me 30 minutes into their first date. "Can you come get me from <a city that's legally an hour away> " Dude suggested that city as their first date, she's like a bit far but okay. Dude was doing 120mph+ to get there, and ditched her when they got there because she was crying. Go figure. Speed limit along that highway is between 30-70mph.
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u/RealGertle627 23d ago
city that's legally an hour away
Is this a restraining order situation between 2 cities?
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u/anonisbull 23d ago edited 23d ago
Public proposals.
EDIT: Thanks kind and shy strangers for all the awards.. my most upvoted comment across all my alts lol.
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u/Woshambo 23d ago
This and proposing at someone else's wedding. How is that romantic? Who wants their engagement to be on someone else's special day?
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u/Bunnyhop-420-69 23d ago
What would you even do if you didn’t want to marry them?? It’s a pretty bad situation to be in
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u/Solaries3 23d ago
If you don't already know what the answer will be you're doing it wrong.
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u/newluna 23d ago
Even if you know it’s gonna be a yes, you gotta know or find out if they’re ok with public proposals. I’d have still said yes to my husband, but would’ve hated the situation.
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u/Lumpy_Constellation 23d ago
I made it so clear to my now-fiancé that I hated this shit. So he found the most beautiful, secluded spot on the Grand Canyon rim hike and proposed there. I loved it so much I kept the map they give you at the visitor center, put a heart over the exact spot, and framed it so it now hangs over our bed.
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u/Ericrobertson1978 23d ago
People who think virgins are the ultimate lay make no sense to me.
I guess those people are either controlling, paranoid, or jealous. (or some combination thereof)
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u/lookin_to_lease 23d ago
SNL did a skit with Jack Black where he was an ogre and a town offers up a virgin to him to be sacrificed.
Jack Black's character, eventually asks for a slutty, older woman instead.
Gorkenlot: Maybe we can strike a little bargain here.
Sir Parrish: I might be willing to listen to something.
Gorkenlot: I’ll let you live, and you can take the virgin with you. But you have to bring me back a slutty girl.
Sir Parrish: [ confused and outraged ] What?!
Gorkenlot: You know, like a bored housewife who’s kind of hot and feels neglected by her husband.
Sir Parrish: But you don’t want a virgin?
Gorkenlot: I’ll be honest with you, buddy – on paper, a virgin sounds great. But in reality, not that good.
Sir Parrish: But I thought even a monster would desire someone who was pure.
Gorkenlot: I’m just looking for a woman who knows what she’s doing.
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u/lookin_to_lease 23d ago
Thx for posting the link. That skit's been hard to find online for a while.
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u/marlasingaar 23d ago
Men with expensive cars or act like assholes, the whole “alpha male” thing and say they are. Real alpha males, don’t say they are. Have tons of money.
Not for me.
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u/Wazbk 23d ago
The expensive cars is a very weird part. Like if they actually like cars and love them, then I can get it. Just buying them to show off money is bad though.
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u/sith10rd94 23d ago
Trends. I always hated when people wanna desperately be the same instead of just being themselves.
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u/theborderlineartist 23d ago
Toxic positivity - that's a HARD NO from me - there's clearly something wrong with you if you don't know how to have a full range of emotions. Especially in today's dystopian nightmare.
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u/SnooCapers9313 23d ago edited 22d ago
The way some girls try to get "perfect" eyebrows. Yea I get no one likes a monno brow even on guys but a girl I know looks like she's 2 Nike logos and it's all I can see. I'm bad for not looking people in the eye but with her I must look real attentive Edit: thank you for all the upvotes. My friend thought he was clever for getting 1k likes on Facebook I've kicked his ass 😂😂😂
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u/Orphanpuncher0 23d ago
If I notice anybody's eyebrows it's because something is up with them.
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u/Bencil_McPrush 23d ago
Way back in 8th grade, I had a classmate that had natural ocurring Spock eyebrows.
I lost track of how often she caught me just staring at her face in mid conversation.
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u/cultured_banana_slug 23d ago
This happens every generation. It's like someone decides women's eyebrows need to look a certain way and you wind up with 10 years of eyebrows looking exactly that way.
Super thin, sharpie, perfect half circles...
At least this generation's brows don't involve killing the follicles.
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u/Invalleria 23d ago
Yes! That trend of shaving or plugging out your eyebrows and tattooing one in was the worst.
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u/Iglesias6969 23d ago
tattoo is still popular. Microblading is what's hot in the streetz.
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u/likestosleep 23d ago
I had a dude on a dating app one time accuse me of being trans because my brows weren't on point. To clarify, I wax the underneath and the middle but leave the top alone. I was speechless that the two are apparently correlated.
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u/cammdenn11 23d ago
Excuse me I have never met a trans woman whose eyebrows weren't on point
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u/DollUnit 23d ago
I used to work in a retail location, and we had a repeat customer who came in weekly. I dunno what she did to her eyebrows, but she paired some plucking with drawing them back in in a clearly different color. I don't think she had a steady hand because she always had a little bit of The Rock giving the People's Eyebrow thing going on.
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u/DarthOtter 23d ago
I told my friend she drew her eyebrows on too high. She looked surprised.
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u/Trania86 23d ago
I told my friend she drew her eyebrows on too high. She looked surprised.
~ Jimmy Carr
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u/spender1986 23d ago
Sexy talk. Makes me so uncomfortable. Like, big time.
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u/B3asy 23d ago
Do you have any idea as to why you don't like it? I feel the same way but I can't seem to pin point the root cause. I've tried to get better at it but it just doesn't feel right to me and it has caused a lot of issues in past relationships
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u/SuddenlySucc_New 23d ago
I feel like this is an unpopular opinion as a guy, but it makes me feel weird as well. Honestly I like as little conversation as possible during sex, you can really focus and get into it. Idk why though, it just triggers that cringe response in me and I freeze up.
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u/onthepathofwholeness 23d ago
That was the best laugh I've had in a while. Thanks, I needed it
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u/hobobong 23d ago
I HATE it. The amount of cringe I get just makes my vagina retract further into my body
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u/MyPersonalRedditName 23d ago
These weird long fingernails to glue on. Big no no for me.
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u/WasintMeBabe 23d ago edited 22d ago
Long nails
Edit: Thank you all for the upvotes and awards, i appreciate it!
Hope you’re all well
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u/czeka17 23d ago
Lip injections on women. Somehow it makes them look like Homer Simpson. Does more above the upper lip than making actual fuller lips.
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u/iamaaronmullen 23d ago
I remember kissing a girl with lip injections and it just felt weird, felt like I was kissing two boners, ill take small soft lips over big and hard lips any day.
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u/ja_millionaire 23d ago
Being in the military. I truly appreciate the service but I’m not someone who could handle the stress of being away from my partner for significant amounts of time, constantly.
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u/sheepsclothingiswool 23d ago edited 23d ago
A big dick. It’s intimidating and all I can think is “ow.”
Edit: A lot of questions about how big is too big. Let’s just say I call my G-spot Waldo because it’s always hiding and neither extra length nor extra girth have found him but agility has come close.
Anything over 6 inches length wise and like a teenager’s hitchhiking thumb size width wise 🤙is too big for me personally. 4-6 length is perfect. Even under that is fine as long as it has the agility of a ravenous snake.
Edit 2: I feel like people are misconstruing my thumb analogy… I don’t mean the thickness of a thumb, I mean holding it sideways like a hitchhiker. So… 3 1/2 inches maybe?
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u/seremuyo 23d ago
I have great news...
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u/NotoriousPYG 23d ago
Big Penises, largely because I’m a straight man.