r/MadeMeSmile 26d ago

Almost 2 years since I overdosed and lost literally everybody in my life. I’m proud of my self and have nobody to share this with so 🤷‍♂️ Small Success

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u/thegreatodinsravens 26d ago

You have EVERYBODY to share this with.

Amazing progress.

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u/Lumpy-Initiative-779 25d ago

Honestly I’ve read through every single comment and I was in tears. I know it’s not socially acceptable for men to cry but nobody has ever told me they were proud of me and it got to me

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u/rawrid 25d ago

Fuck it not being socially acceptable. If you need to, let it out

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u/MyLifeHurtsRightNow 25d ago edited 25d ago

I second u/rawrid. We are all accepting of your tears, and this is, after all, a social media app. Bam, bam! Toxic masculinity solved.

But fr,fr: Crying is a good thing. It means that you're human and have human experiences and emotions. It means that you have a brain that thinks real thoughts when events occur and when people speak. And you definitely don't need to feel the stupidass abusive sexist societal standards in your own home (or wherever you at)! You deserve to cry, to smile, to laugh on your own time. If you ever need, pm me and I'll venmo you some of my bossbitch energy

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u/brandimariee6 25d ago

Cry all you need to bud! It doesn’t matter if you’re a man or woman or what, let those tears out. If something made me upset, I always feel better after I have a good cry. You seem like you’re doing so amazing. Keep kicking ass, it’s so wonderful that you’ve turned your life around!

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u/AdorableCaterpillar9 25d ago edited 25d ago

Men are human beings and human beings are supposed to cry! I can't cry and it's a mental health issue and makes it really difficult for me to express and process intense emotions properly. Sometimes I've had negative emotions and I've sat just desperately wanting to cry but it's impossible. The reason was that I was beaten as a kid if I cried and something in my brain broke:(

If you're concerned about judgement do it in private, but it's 100% normal, in fact, good that you cry. Take it from someone who desperately wishes he could cry... you're doing fine. You're healthy and awesome!

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u/Doofenshmirtz12345 25d ago

To hell with "not being socially acceptable", we're proud of you and you should be too

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u/HumusGoose 25d ago

In my family, my dad's the one who cries most. My mum almost never cries. So for us it's normal for men to cry and I'm so glad that's the case. I hope we can spread that on to our kids.

Crying is really good for you, so much better to let it out!

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u/_The_Great_Nugget_ 25d ago

Aand just like that I'm in tears too, but don't worry they're happy tears. Smiling like an idiot too so theres that haha. I'm so glad that you didn't give up and look at where you are now! You really made my day, keep up the good work!

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u/Wormhole-X-Treme 25d ago

It is acceptable 🤗

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u/timalnremak 25d ago

Then we need to make it socially acceptable. We are the society god damn it

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u/donjalapeno7 26d ago

You look great bud. Way to turn things around for the better 👍

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u/CandelariaCates 26d ago

Good job man. Keep up the good work.👍🏽🌟

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u/DwaywelayTOP 25d ago

Congratulations Man for your hard work and dedication. I am proud of you ! love yourself more and be a better version of yourself.

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u/acousticbruises 26d ago

The stache works for you, a feat so few can pull off. 👏🏻👏🏻 Glad you are recovered and still here.

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u/Lumpy-Initiative-779 26d ago

❤️❤️

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u/zoeydoey 25d ago

Hot diggity that’s some good mustache.

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u/Ronotrow2 25d ago

Agree. Very fancy

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u/walk_through_this 25d ago

Seriously, OP, I mustache you some questions about looking so damn good.

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u/LandofLincoln75 25d ago

Right. Like I’m sure I’m old enough to be his mom but wow he’s hot.

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u/dorknob21 25d ago

And them eyebrows !!!!

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u/acousticbruises 25d ago

Right? Plus the pompadour. OP should be a model for male hair products.

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u/char1112 26d ago

You’re looking so healthy, all the best for your journey going forward and I hope you get the support you deserve

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u/I_am_dean 26d ago

I was addicted to meth and heroin, I was probably 80lbs soaking wet when I got sober. Add in a few overdoses and the loss of friends and family due to my addiction.

It’s been 10 years now, reconnected with my family and a couple of friends.

Congratulations friend! Keep it up :)

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u/cacoon2002 26d ago

Take “small success” out! This is a BIG success my friend!

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u/illuminalice 26d ago

good job, youre doing great

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u/Lumpy-Initiative-779 26d ago

Thank you!

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u/Alright_Man_ 26d ago

Congratulations champ

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u/Yourgirlssancho 26d ago

My man !! You looking good bro keep getting them gains you remind me of myself I used weightlifting and bodybuilding to bring me up out of my addiction ! You still look like an addict but this time around you look like an iron addict !! Keep up the good work brah!! Always on beast mode !!

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u/WhoKn0w5 26d ago

Completely agree, being around addicts is no life style

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u/majorlieg 26d ago

Fuck yeah dude I overdosed myself and had no one but the methadone clinic and an empty apartment in the ghetto .Now I am 6yrs clean and livin a better life. Not saying it's easy but it is so much better. Proud of you my man!! 💯 Keep it up.

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u/SamAreAye 26d ago

Glad you're still with us, bud. Keep fighting the good fight.

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u/MrPIIbs 26d ago

Congrats buddy. Keep it up. Proud of you!

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u/HealthHappy9890 26d ago

Brought tears to my eyes. You should be very proud of yourself. Hell I don’t know you and I’m proud of you! Keep it up!

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u/19sweetleaf77 26d ago

congratulations bud got 20 years this year myself never give up

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u/Rayne2522 26d ago

Almost 2 years for me as well and I lost everybody too. Good for you!!

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u/Smellyirishman04 25d ago

Good stuff dude, no easy feat

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u/AlwaysBananas 26d ago

I lost my sister to an overdose. I'm incredibly proud of you. Don't give up on your self or your fight. Your value in this world cannot be overstated.

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u/saltyslug86 26d ago

You're still young af go get some fukn life down ya! Congrats!!!

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u/VariationCharacter19 26d ago

Great work bro! Post another update in 3 months and try smiling, I think it'll suit you!

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u/Lumpy-Initiative-779 26d ago

I stopped smiling in pics after someone told me my smile was ugly tbh

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u/No_Complaint_2416 25d ago

Whoever told you that was being horrible, ignore that. Probably insecure themselves

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u/VariationCharacter19 26d ago

Please trust me that a genuine smile is never ugly

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u/StrangeRealQuarks 26d ago

Good job man. Keep up the good work.👍🏽🌟

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u/olemistake 26d ago

Lookin' good!

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u/CrocsWithTheFuzz 26d ago

You're killing it dude! Keep kicking ass everyday!

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u/Knot_In_My_Butt 26d ago

Hell yeah bröther!

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u/stim10kris 26d ago

You are so beautiful and special! I'm just a stranger, but think of it this way- you wheened out the people who are too insecure and judgemental to be bothered with someone else's real issues. Their loss! Better to learn that now. And you beat this without them, so remember how strong you are on your own! Thank you for sharing and congratulations! You are a wiser, stronger person.

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u/GimiGimi13254 25d ago

Im proud of you

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u/clarinetnerdy 25d ago

You can share it with that absolutely magnificent mustache

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u/pollofgc 26d ago

Apparently you have gained yourself and that is the most important in a human being. Keep loving you, there are many people here to keep cheer you up!

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u/SonofFinn 26d ago

He bud, proud of you.

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u/Russucas 26d ago

Well done brother! You need a mate in the UK send me a message dude

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u/CregChrist 26d ago

Dude, bring back the stache! You can totally rock it!

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u/sixela8799 26d ago

Right? It reminded me of Tom Selleck's 😂

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u/CregChrist 26d ago

I immediately thought of one of the Franco's. There's more than one, right?

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u/serenityx77 26d ago

Congrats on your 2 years and keep it up 😊

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u/didico207 26d ago

Cool doing great keep on going and hopefully those around you will see the change but keep focusing in your happiness. 👍🏻

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u/AnniMalia 26d ago

Congratulations! Don't stop, keep it going! 👊🏻💪🏻 Good vibes sent your way 😊

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u/castfam09 26d ago

Congrats on your sobriety! Sometimes it takes something drastic to realize what you need in life 💙💙💙

I wish you nothing but the best in your journey

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u/78redhonda 26d ago

Proud of you. Takes a lot.

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u/dezucha 26d ago

I’m so happy for u <33

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u/Apsodi81 26d ago

Congrats on your accomplishment.

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u/ccs3333 26d ago

You look very healthy! Keep it up!

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u/cloud_boiii 26d ago

Keep going man! Proud of ya 💪🏽

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u/lostsailorlivefree 26d ago

Know that peeps in your life will revisit your friendship, but they are wary. It can be painful but with time as an ally you will succeed for those YOU deem worthy.

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u/Mkat1896 26d ago

Congratulations on getting yourself clean! Keep up the good work!

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u/chaosweb2 26d ago

Good job, hands up 👍

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u/emeribeth 26d ago

Congratulations!!! We're all proud of you! ❤

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u/untiedsneakers 26d ago

Looking good king<3

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u/nonutnovembernoob 26d ago

You have every right to be proud of yourself king 👑. Nice mustache btw

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u/Summer_Frost3420 26d ago

You look great and deserve people who care about you, hell I can be your friend if you want :D

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u/babybear68 26d ago

You look amazing!!! I'm glad that everything is starting to come together.

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u/Criticalfluffs 26d ago

Keep up the good work! We’re proud of your progress!

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u/JoTones 26d ago

Well I’m fucking proud of you dude. Sending you all the good vibes I can muster right now.

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u/tutamuss 26d ago

Looking great! Congrats!

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u/laperuana 26d ago

You're looking great! Keep at it!

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u/jack030170 26d ago

So proud of you! My nephew died from a overdose. You keep doing what your doing.

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u/kaptain-spaulding 25d ago

Looks like rock bottom is in the past.

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u/Proper_Strength_8925 25d ago

You a boss homie! Keep grindin’ Keep shinin’

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u/AgentRevolutionary99 25d ago

The nice thing about not checking out is you have time to rebuild relationships.

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u/YT_ToxicNinjaGaming 25d ago

Hell yea man. Great job dude

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u/Stardust_Lovers929 25d ago

Congratulations. Awesome achievement!

I removed someone from my life who had an addiction to keep myself safe and it was the hardest thing I ever did. That person came back into my life when they were sober and although we don’t have the same relationship we once did, our bond has evolved into something stronger.

Have hope that one day things are going to change (people change, as you’ve shown) and you’ll find your people. Stay strong.

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u/TBMOTP930791 25d ago

Keep up the good work. The real ones stick around believe it

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u/jsandi6751 25d ago

Marry me

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u/tannie86 25d ago

Doing amazing my lovely! Well done. X

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u/MickeyMeerkat 25d ago

Congrats man! Take it one day at a time :)

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u/beebsaleebs 25d ago

Healthy looks good on you! Congratulations!

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u/sweetie314159623 25d ago

You are amazing! You have all of us to share this with. I'm proud of you and I'm glad you're here to share this with us.

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u/sweetie314159623 25d ago

You are amazing! You have all of us to share this with. I'm proud of you and I'm glad you're here to share this with us.

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u/triplestackks 25d ago

You’re doing great bro keep it up!

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u/BabyInchworm 25d ago

Churchill had some of the best sayings that I repeat often. “When you find yourself going through hell, keep going” and “Never give up”. You embody both. My hero!

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u/sm00thie_RoBoT 25d ago

go get it my bro. spendin a year and a half in prison startin when i was 20 i was workin on myself and made enough progress that im not too insecure to be shirtless.im 22 now and im continuing my journey and im glad im not alone. bettering urself is parallel to purpose in life. i mean it genuinely, im proud of u and u give me hope. sendin good vibes ur way

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u/videogamessuckbutt 25d ago

I don’t know which one is the new and improved you but all those looking hot

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u/Paradise_A 25d ago

Healthy looks really great on you! Congratulations!!

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u/Droopidoo 25d ago

You are looking great. Keep it up. 💪👍👌

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u/Snoo-23693 25d ago

Looking great!

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u/Smellyirishman04 25d ago

Proud of you dude. Drugs aren’t easy. Proud of you for continuing to climb out that whole. Keep going!

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u/BillFree0101 25d ago

👍👍👍👍

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u/CheckOk250 25d ago

That mustache is everything I need to know. We'd be damn chill friends

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u/RobbieRodri 25d ago

I'll volunteer. Cute-y

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u/Leyr2 25d ago

Love this moustache

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u/rawrid 25d ago

Fantastic work my dude. Proud of you ☺️

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u/nw0rp 25d ago

Ur doing great my dude. Keep it up!

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u/Large-Calligrapher98 25d ago

You have accomplished a HUGE win! We are lol very proud of you.

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u/idioteque33 25d ago

Keep strong !!

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u/alexbibble1 25d ago

ABSOLUTE FUCKING UNIT

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u/RandomAsianGuyOk 25d ago

So fucking proud of you man. Amazing job. You’re an inspiration!

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u/RikkySpanish82 25d ago

Don’t stop and don’t look back bro. Killing it with the stache!

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u/MyLifeHurtsRightNow 25d ago edited 25d ago

Awesome job. We're all so proud of you! And can we also say that you straight gorgeous, my man.

Edit: How can your stupid ass label this as a small success?? You rock!

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u/Ianosaur1 25d ago

You're doin' great lad, lookin' good. Keep it up!

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u/numberonehobbit 25d ago

congrats, hun. i know we’re all so fucking proud of you. ❤️❤️❤️

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u/-CokeJones- 25d ago

Awesome job mate! Keep up the great work! You should be proud of yourself.

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u/Californiapearl 25d ago

Most important of all.. you have yourself to share it with.

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u/Spud_Potate 25d ago

Man's rocking that stache tho damnn

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u/thebestnameisthis 25d ago

Why "small success"? I'm so incredibly proud of you 💜
You did such an amazing job and I'm glad you chose to share with us 😊

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u/imjaceyuh 25d ago

❤️

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u/Cold_Toe3020 25d ago

Normally mustaches look weird to me. It honestly looks great on you! Congratulations on your new beginning. Wishing you nothing but continued success.

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u/Mintcar52 25d ago

Keep up the good work man. 👏👏👏

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u/baybaybabs 25d ago

you look amazing!

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u/orick22 25d ago

Keep going. You are doing great and in time you will make new relationships and might be able to heal the relationships that addiction (not you) broke. God bless you.

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u/ponjaiden01 25d ago

Congrats! You’re looking amazing. I’m so incredibly proud of you ❤️

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u/crosscope 25d ago

You go Zach Efron.

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u/theycallmebigal 25d ago

I just left my hometown that ive lived in for my entire life of 33 years.

I moved to a new place with some local friends that I met online.

I left everyone and everything I knew because my hometown made me want to use drugs. Now, in my new home and with my new friends I come across posts like yours and I find myself rooting for you, saying "go get em bud, do that thing that makes you smile...its so worth it"

And I am here to say this to you now. Go. Go out and be happy. Leave the drugs, just go find people.

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u/ADumpsterFiree 25d ago

& now youre fine as hell, so you got that going for you

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u/SolidPerception813 25d ago

On the same journey, thanks for the inspiration brotha!

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u/Lumpy-Initiative-779 25d ago

I wish you the best! Stay strong❤️

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u/AdorableCaterpillar9 25d ago

Why did you lose everyone in your life; that is when you needed them the most? Maybe it's like what I went thru after highschool where I realized my social circle was low quality, and replaced my friends with new friends that are kind, empathetic, wonderful, hard working people who want to make the world a better place. I bet that's your future.

I'm happy you're doing well. Don't internalize that. You will make new and more wonderful connections with authentic kind people.

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u/[deleted] 25d ago

You. Look. Great.

Congrats!!! 🥳

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u/Proof_Dish9843 25d ago

I am very proud of you

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u/Super__Salad 25d ago

Seems like a pretty big success. You look great. I hope you're doing better and keep it up! I'm proud of you. :)

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u/SmileyMcTrashbag 25d ago

You remind me of Kip (I think thats his name) from Napoleon Dynamite! He's my favorite character. Proud of you, bud! Keep hanging in there.

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u/FurryChildren 25d ago

You should be proud of yourself. You deserve praise. Happy you made something positive out of something negative. Two years is a long time and you did it! Your redditors are proud of you!

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u/luisriveraking 25d ago

Good for you ☺️

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u/Deez69Nutzzzz 25d ago

U r awesome! Keep up the good work!

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u/warmnfuzzynside 25d ago

Oooaaahhh what a sexy man!! 😨😨 glad you’re still with us <3

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u/PD216ohio 25d ago

First of all, congrats on getting it together.

Second of all, it is never too late to fix things with the people you've wronged and alienated. Teach it, be sincere. It might not be easy and you might have to be persistent but you'll be glad you took that step no matter the outcome.

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u/Zarodex 25d ago

Dude went from regular guy to Braum

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u/fdorgham 25d ago

I hate that I'm broke and can't send you a reward for being utterly awesome but I can certainly TELL you how awesome you are!

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u/InteractionMaximum38 25d ago

that’s is quiet the physic i’m jealous that take some serious dedication good iob

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u/TobyDaMan8894 25d ago

Make your inner soul and mind as strong as your outward appearance. And you’ll keep accomplishing great things. Love yourself for who you are, learn from your failures with the same mindset that you celebrate your accomplishments.

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u/aquacakra 25d ago

You have us

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u/EpsilonOnizuka 25d ago

That effectively made me smile. Proud of you, fellow stranger ;)

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u/Iller-Instinct 25d ago

I needed to see this, thank you

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u/Brenden_LaDeau 25d ago

Man I’m proud of you, and you allowed to cry! It’s healthy and natural! Keep being a gangster

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u/chooseyou_142 25d ago

You look amazing bud. You’re doing great

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u/MaskedRay 25d ago

Well exuse me while I appreciate the hard effort you put into yourself.

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u/ashoskins 25d ago

I choose terrible relationship after another. I wish I had succeeded three years ago.

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u/Townssend 25d ago

That’s amazing man.... really really well done

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u/Kurgan182 25d ago

You are a legend mate, keep pushing! Drug is hell mate, stay clean, we are with you.

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u/Businessjett 25d ago

You have all of us to share this with. Thank you for making the time to think of us here and show us how well you are doing.

We are all proud of you too. You’ve been through an incredible amount. It’s obvious what an amazing person you are to make it this far. Many people don’t.

Congratulation.

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u/Euphoric_Equal623 25d ago

You look great! You can share with us anytime.

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u/plushbloodgod 25d ago

Go you! :D If you ever need someone to talk to or if you just want a friend feel free to message me!

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u/juhreen 25d ago

I am so happy you are still here with us! I'm really proud of you and know of the fight. What you have accomplished is the opposite of easy! Keep going, you're seriously doing so great!

Also the honesty and strength to share is incredibly brave. I hope you are as proud of yourself as we are of you :)

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u/Distantdave 25d ago

Very Hot!

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u/xiuminpowder 25d ago

Wow. Looking fine as a Sharpie 💪☺️ So proud of you 💕 And you have all the right to be proud of yourself for continuing to overcome things in your life 😇 Be safe and healthy! Take good care always!

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u/TrainingIllustrator3 25d ago

Let's petition to make this the new Gigachad

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u/larrythegood 25d ago

Welcome!! Good job!

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u/melbsgeetar 25d ago

Aye bruv, good fucking on you. Your a good lad for doing what you do and have a bright future ahead of you. Every moment you think of the alternative, remember life.

Godspeed you legend.

Jack

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u/VegetableIncrease206 25d ago

You are awesome dude keep it up man

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u/Mad-Pizza-Lover 25d ago

Very proud of you too. :)

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u/Morgentau7 25d ago

As long as you are healthy and strong enough to fight for yourself the world is yours. I wish you all the best!

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u/haZhat 25d ago

Stay strong brother, looking good

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u/Generic_Username7921 25d ago

You look amazing! Great proportions, a healthy skin tone, wonderful hair, love to see it!

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u/wolf-phoenix7 25d ago

I’m proud of you too OP💖

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u/Asleep-Bug-9147 25d ago

Glad you're still around! Also happy to see this post dude, big kudos for accepting your own insecurities. Its precious!

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u/Sanketmv 25d ago

Internet is proud of you fam.

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u/Mdwatoo 25d ago

Congratulations. I'm sorry you have had it so tough. U are worth it keep on pushing.

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u/No_Kale_8671 25d ago

Good fucken work king

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u/TheBlackBishSheep 25d ago

Damn sir, hi

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u/nyx_moonlight_ 25d ago

You should be so proud of yourself!! Congratulations!! Glad you made it

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u/PalmaWstydu 25d ago

Anybody else bi-panic?

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u/mckilburn 25d ago edited 25d ago

I’m very proud of you. Hugs from this mom!

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u/JEM_10_1993 25d ago

Keep it up.

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u/TallGrapefruit2528 25d ago

Proud of you

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u/ThumbPianoMom 25d ago

Bonito 😍

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u/AG-104 25d ago

Wow...you still have us.🤷‍♂️

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u/misssmashing 25d ago

Look at you! LOOK AT YOU! Look how far you’ve come! Imagine what you can achieve in the next 2 years! Thank you for sharing with us! I’m proud of you buddy and I think you’re cute. Enjoy your day

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u/frozenpinecones 25d ago

You should be proud of yourself! You came from a very dark place, turned things around and made a huge progress. You look amazing, bro!

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u/Queen-of-meme 25d ago

This is great!! Keep going brother 🤜

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u/PsychoticBlob 25d ago

Damnnn brooo 🥵

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u/vividmind7 25d ago

No homo but you looking mad sexy tho 😳. Congrats

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u/Leonelle07 25d ago

Congratulations, well done 👏

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u/Chrisodle007 25d ago

Looking fit James Franco

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u/iamatcha 25d ago

You look amazing ☀️

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u/lappi99 25d ago

I kinda want your hair. Looks amazing

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u/PurpleNurple555 25d ago

If they were worth it, try to get them back again. Everyone needs a support system and you'll never know the full extent of why yours walked away at the time. Just reach out. Also, congratulations-fuckin-lations man!

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u/kingkalm 25d ago

Those back gains, man. Wow. Thank you for sharing this with us. I think I can speak on behalf of everyone here how proud we are for your bravery and your healthy lifestyle changes. This made my day.

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u/Rugbyguy8432 25d ago

Drugs to the gym great job brother 👍🏻👍🏻👍🏻

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u/Mommashark1104 25d ago

Proud of you!

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u/whoopsie_cushion32 25d ago

Good on you !

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u/Paegan83 25d ago

‘Stash is on point.