r/MadeMeSmile • u/BabaYaga1398 • 25d ago
You gotta always discuss with the boys. Good Vibes
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u/ClassicT4 24d ago edited 24d ago
“If anyone wants to object, speak now, or forever hold your peace.”
all the groomsman huddle again
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u/Lower_Funny 25d ago
I don’t think he would do it if he didn’t think she’d have a laugh !
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u/Ursula2071 24d ago
I would hope not! But they made it pretty obvious it was all in good fun and that makes it cute.
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u/Tchrspest 25d ago
I'm a little sad they didn't do a "hands in, <team name> on three" to break.
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u/__SerenityByJan__ 24d ago
I was actually hoping that’s how the huddle would have ended. Would have been even funnier
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u/8-BIT-Chicken 25d ago
I feel like ppl don't realize that jokes like these are probably WHY she's marrying him lol
Like if she had a problem with his sense of humour, she wouldn't be here XD
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u/spicygummi 24d ago
Yeah, definitely. I'd probably be cracking up the whole time. I appreciate a good sense of humor.
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u/x417xCrispBacon 24d ago
Yeah, but it’s a fine line. My wife would laugh at that pretty much every time. But wedding day is one of those few days where it would have been a problem. When in doubt, being careful on the wedding day is always smart
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u/WatcherYdnew 24d ago
All these salty people, it's probably an inside joke between the bride and groom.
My husband and I have this inside joke with our friends that for everyone's birthday we have tl cobgratulate EVERYONE by shaking their hand to congratulate with "this person" it's funny. When we got married and the "kiss the bride" part came up in stead of kissing (because he is uncomfortable with PDA" we shook each other's hand and said "congrats on getting married". To outsiders it may have seemed very unloving and cold but we laughed our asses off.
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u/BabaYaga1398 24d ago
We need more people like you 🙌🙌🙌 , unlike the dimwits who are making such a big deal out of this and being butt hurt .
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u/Several_Welder614 25d ago
whoooooa salt alert, chilllll peeps
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u/Guindon05 24d ago
I can't believe what I'm reading lol
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u/Andy_and_Vic 24d ago
ThIs Is So CrInGe AnD dIsReSpEcTfUl To ThE bRiDe
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u/badstone69 24d ago
You can see she is dying in laughter in the clip, it not like she hate it or anyway, why tf you go in to this sub just to be a asshole?
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u/PragmatismIsGod 25d ago
I feel like that bride was probably pissed at him.
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u/Flogly 25d ago
Oh I thought this was a comedic thing instead of an actual wedding until I looked at the replies
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u/Elex408 24d ago
I thought you said reptiles instead of replies. I was like what fucking reptiles 🤔
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u/Commercial_Pitch_950 24d ago
the wedding reptiles. its like releasing doves except its just a fcking ton of bearded dragons waddling around
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u/Still_Tackle_150five 24d ago
Technically birds are reptiles, soooo….wedding reptiles is fine, just strange
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u/Lord_Bawk 25d ago
She probably knows who she is marrying considering they’re getting, you know, married.
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u/LairaKlock 24d ago
Have you ever been to r/Aita ? Every second post is by a woman whose partner is treating them like shit and them being confused about whether not putting up with it makes them an asshole.
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u/lazyboi237 24d ago
And the other post is something negligible and “divorce/break up” as the replies. Polar opposites lol
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u/8-BIT-Chicken 24d ago
Good point, but AITA isn't indicative of every relationship
We aren't involved in their personal lives lol, why are we immediately assuming the worst possible scenario
Or assuming anything at all for that matter
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u/spicygummi 24d ago
Yeah, she's probably used to his antics if their relationship is serious enough to be getting married. I highly doubt he just suddenly decided to play a little joke on her for the first time during their wedding
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u/succulentsucca 25d ago
Yeah her hands said “what the fuck is going on here??” for a sec. She was a good sport about it tho.
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u/SippingCoffeeTea 25d ago
I personally think that's embarrassing. I understand the comedic effect but no.
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u/CharcoalBambooHugs 24d ago edited 24d ago
I’m sure the guy knows his fiancé well enough to know if she’d laugh or feel embarrassed.
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u/reditommy 25d ago
I’m pretty sure she knew what she was getting herself into. Not everyone has a stick up their ass and some just appreciate a good sense of humor.
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u/Salva_delille 24d ago
I mean if they're getting married and he knows her for a few years I believe he knows she likes that sort of humor or they wouldn't be getting married
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u/spaceygracie12 24d ago
I love a guy who can make me laugh and be a bit of a smartass. There is no way I would think this was serious, it's totally meant to get a chuckle.
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u/OlDanboy 25d ago
Do people really just come into this sub be negative on every post? This is such a harmless joke, and I know my gf agrees with me. Some people have senses of humor about themselves and that’s a very memorable way of performing the ceremony
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u/katsnam3ddawg 25d ago
When my bride walked up to me at the alter, I leaned in to her, looked her in her beautiful eyes, and quietly said to her “I farted.” She almost split a gut laughing
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u/OlDanboy 25d ago
See? That’s fucking hilarious dude, shit like that is so beyond goals for us. We break sweet moments with humor constantly
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u/100_000_001 24d ago
My fam's the opposite, we break horrible moments with humour constantly.
Grandma went first. Grandpa went a few years later...I was standing by the bedside with my father and some aunts/uncles when it was time.
Within 10 seconds of his final breath, the Aunt said "Finally, he's at peace, and with (Grandma) again".
My father lifts his face to look at her with an expression of pure horror and says "Good god, surely they're not going to send him down there?".
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u/inGage 25d ago
AGREED.. quiet, humble fart humor can cut the tension and remind us of our humanity. Here is me making a fart joke in my vows!
That being said, I feel like the groom checking with "da guys" before agreeing to marry her sends the message that the groom doesn't value his bride as much as he values his buddies opinion.
You leaning into your bride and making her laugh with a private remark is the opposite of this guy.. it brings you closer to her, and no one else's laughter was important to you. With this guy, I feel like the laughter was at the brides expense.
it's a huge yikes! from here in Seattle.
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u/ComebackKidGorgeous 25d ago
Congrats on the marriage! How long were you “inGage-d”?
Sorry I had to.
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u/100_000_001 24d ago
It's a joke, cuts the tension, and sends the message that all of these ride or die bro's unequivocally have her back. Lighten up.
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u/Puffena 24d ago
She was laughing, clearly this is the kind of humor she enjoys. People love to talk about the relationships of people they’ve never met before, but the comments to this post takes the cake for the dumbest version of this toxic mentality I’ve seen yet. She laughs in the video, to assume she was upset here requires you to entirely ignore the end of the video. It’s ridiculous.
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u/spaceygracie12 24d ago
that's awesome especially since i would imagine you were both a bit nervous. What a great way to break (hahahah) the tension.
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u/vector78 24d ago
This is what I want. 😭
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u/katsnam3ddawg 24d ago
Be careful who you ask for. We don’t get any better as we age 🤣🤣🤣
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u/vector78 24d ago
Perfect. I miss queefing on my ex boyfriend's head. I have the sense of humor of a teenager. Keeping the hope alive.
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u/Court-Material 24d ago
This is something my bf would do at our wedding lol and I’d probably still laugh about it decades later
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u/IrishWaluigi98 25d ago
Yup. It’s both hilarious and disrespectful. I can see it both ways. It made me laugh! The wedding ceremonies themselves are pretty boring - so this is a fun way to get in the swing of a party before the foods and deserts!
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u/Autumn1eaves 24d ago
I don't know if I would call this disrespectful, it's pretty clearly played for laughs.
They all looked up and stared at her at the exact same time.
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u/OlDanboy 25d ago
Yeah but like people in this thread are acting like the only way this is going down is that the husband is being an asshole and not that they both have a sense of humor and he’s trying to make her laugh. He’s pretty clearly trying to make her laugh
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u/Moaibeal 24d ago
I understand it’s a harmless joke for you and your SO and that’s fine, it might also be for this couple, but for a lot of people it hits a big bruise.
I’m glad you’re enjoying it, but since the sub is for being uplifted (a lot of people come here after being sad or hurt to look at things that make them feel better) I think it’s significant that many people find it more embarrassing and sad instead of positive.
Maybe the conversation would be better if it wasn’t “I find it funny” vs “I don’t” and was more “considering the amount of people that finds this hurtful, maybe it doesn’t belong on a sub meant to make people happy regardless of who finds it funny”
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u/Fishy_125 24d ago
So if we put aside the idea that this sub shouldn’t have post that some don’t like.
if you look at the votes, it is positive, I’m not sure how you’d like to see if something is more or less favourable, but the built in voting system seems a viable option
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u/Moaibeal 24d ago
Actually more people end up upvoting than downvoting, I don’t think the upvote system is actually exactly viable when it comes to gauging if posts are disliked or by how many. I mean many people just keep scrolling if they don’t like something.
I’ve seen multiple horrendously sexist posts get upvoted 800+ while all of the popular upvoted comments are denouncing it.
Either way, since you seem to be saying the percent of people who are hurt by the post is too small to care about, I’m curious what percent would feel big enough to you? Serious question I’m not trying to be facetious
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u/Fishy_125 24d ago
For the first paragraph, I think that’s true for likes too, and only the poster (afaik) can see how many views it got
Unfortunately, lots of people are sexist and/or don’t care about sexist jokes
As for what % honestly no clue, but while some comments are against the post, there are as many or more supporting it and then the votes for the post itself, I can’t say where I think the line should be, but it doesn’t appear like it should be here.
I don’t like saying this since it’s kind of dismissive, but there will always be people upset, regardless if the content
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u/needs-more-metronome 24d ago edited 24d ago
Given that it has a net +4.4 thousand upvotes and the majority of the highest rated comments are telling people to chill or in support of the video, I'd say it belongs in this sub. Obviously it is the minority that doesn't find this funny, and it makes no sense to cater content that obviously doesn't break the rules of the sub for a minority of commenters that didn't smile. That just makes no sense at all.
If you don't find this tasteful just move on? Why is the empathetic thing to censor material like this, instead of moving on with your day and letting some people experience a joy in watching the video? Again, if it was breaking some sub rules that would be one thing... otherwise, I don't really get it.
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u/100_000_001 24d ago
I think it’s significant that many people find it more embarrassing and sad
I highly doubt this couple gives a solitary flying fuck about strangers opinions on their relationship.
Your baggage is your baggage.
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u/Moaibeal 24d ago
It’s interesting you think the point of my comment has anything to do with the couple. Did you read it?
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u/100_000_001 24d ago
Mate, if you live your entire life worrying that someone might get offended about everything you do, you will (if you search enough) find someone that's upset with you for any given action.
This goes the same for almost any given content on the internet.
The upvotes speak for the sub. Not you. So far it's over 9000:1.
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u/LeMeowLePurrr 24d ago
I'm tripping on the whole wedding on a stage thing! That's an amazing wedding planning flex
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u/thermidorthelobster 25d ago
Not sure whether it’s a cultural thing but in my country this sort of thing is just seen as unfunny and cringeworthy.
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u/0betweenthebeyond1 25d ago
American checking in and this is cringe. Yikes.
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u/HereForTOMT2 25d ago
American checking in and this is funny
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u/justabeewithdegree 25d ago
German checking in and this is indeed very funny
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u/Lightheart86 25d ago
Ah yes... because we all know how famously notorious for their sense of humor Germans are.
I kid, I kid. No shoot.
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u/justabeewithdegree 24d ago
I'll spare you... this time. But you're actually correct. I'm only half german. My mom (not german) is someone that likes to joke around and boy oh boy can that be though sometimes. An actual openly funny German with a good sense of humour can be difficult to find.
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u/Livid_Ad_26 24d ago
Brit checking in and over a nice cuppa I found this vaguely amusing, cheers!
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u/BitterFudge23 24d ago
Indian checking in and I found this hilarious but also heart-rendering because it takes confidence and trust to know that the one you marry appreciates that kind of humour
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u/RareSheepherder7 24d ago
Im baffled by the people who think this is humiliating. You have to remember that they are getting MARRIED. It’s not like it’s their first date or anything. She knows who he is and how he is. He would know her well enough to assume that she can take a joke like this.
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u/SippingCoffeeTea 25d ago
I wonder what she did when the question was asked to her...
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u/imothing91 24d ago
Best part was when they all looked over at her at the same time.
Y’all need to chill, obviously she was in on it.
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u/Longjumping_Sleep_12 25d ago
The timing with the look at her was great too..
They must laugh a lot 😀
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u/aries0688 24d ago
I liked it, thought it was very cute and original… if she got pissed she wasn’t the right girl for him. Always be yourself and let others be themselves! ☮️
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u/Muted-Ad1142 25d ago
It was clearly a joke. Everyone was laughing.
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u/Longjumping_Sleep_12 25d ago
Mate weddings aren't fucking funerals, you can laugh here you know..
Do you take everything in life so serious?
Must be tough
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u/ThoughtlessFoll 25d ago
You should go to one, I hear people tell funny stories. Now imagine a day when symbolically you are now a team with your bride/groom, but you make a joke about discussing it with the guys. It has two interesting juxtapositions, one that they guys opinions mean less now as they aren’t involved in your life decisions, and how you say to your partner, in a joking manner, that it’s one last decision you will with them. It’s funny, good wedding always have humour. That may have to do with family and close friends which have similar humour, here the wife may have passively joked that the lads have too much say, and this his way of saying it’s about us.
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u/ByTheHammerOfThor 25d ago
That might be one reason why you and this guy just aren’t a good match, bro.
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u/khcarter68 24d ago
That was hilarious. They had obviously practiced the timing a lot! I would have been laughing, for sure!
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u/Yousahoebitch 24d ago
damnnn I just filmed a wedding and the groom did exactly this ahah I thought he just came up with it but oh well still pretty funny to see irl
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u/m0l0_l0l0 24d ago
I'd never be down with something like this, then again I'd probably never marry someone who'd have this type of relationship with "the boys". But she clearly is and she was laughing. So it's her choice and her wedding, she knows who she's marrying and it's obviously an idiot (I say that in the kindest way possible.) Why are people so mad?
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u/Willow_weeping85 24d ago
If I were within a week of getting my period and this happened to me, I’d probably leave him at the alter 😂
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u/Goodbyepuppy92 24d ago
I think this is okay if the bride is in on it or enjoys his humor. My husband and I put funny jabs at each other in our vows. I could totally see my husband and I both doing this as a joke.
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u/One-Fine-Day-777 24d ago
This is incredibly cheesy and actually publicly humiliating.
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u/hits_from_the_booong 24d ago
How is this humiliating. It’s just a lighthearted joke. You’d have to be really insecure to think that he is actually contemplating whether to say yes
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u/Dobby-a-free-elf 24d ago
If anyone has seen the show Kevin Can F*** Himself - this is how I picture their wedding
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u/Moaibeal 25d ago
Who’s smiling at this, that would be humiliating.
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
You'd really be ashamed by this?
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u/Moaibeal 25d ago
I mean, the joke is basically implying he could still be convinced to say no. If you were going to marry someone, and in front of all your friends and family they were like “I don’t know, maybe I don’t want to marry you, I could take it or leave it really. I guess I will though.” Wouldn’t that feel humiliating? I don’t think I would want to marry someone who seemed like they weren’t sure of marrying me, and announced that in front of everyone, joke or not. Personally it would feel really devaluing, and like the person who was supposed to love me the most saw me as something easily disposable and didn’t mind announcing it to everyone else who cares about me.
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
If you want to read into it it would also imply that his answer depends on his friends' opinion and he waited till after paying for a wedding to ask them what they think, also that they need to huddle and that they hadn't seen her face properly and needed a better look. It's just not necessary to dig that deep, tho people can't help but feel their feelings so if that would be something that comes to your mind then you can't be faulted for not liking the joke. I guess the point I'm trying to make is that maybe you should consider the bride and their guests don't see it that way
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u/Moaibeal 25d ago
Maybe they don’t, I really hope not, but that doesn’t make the whole thing less humiliating seeming. (I would also like to say that a big tactic with getting through embarrassment and discomfort especially for women is just smiling and going along until they get somewhere that seems safe to express how they feel, so we really don’t know if she is feeling totally fine about it.) That one engagement photo shoot was probably endorsed by the bride, groom, and family, but we all know how messed up it looks.
I just don’t see what’s worth smiling over with this joke, where is it uplifting even if they were all cool with it?
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
I don't know what engagement photo shoot you're talking about, and honestly as someone who had a lot of toxic family members i understand that people might not be fine with something and not show it, but i kinda prefer to assume the happy probablity over the sad possiblity.
Plus, i don't think jokes have to be uplifting to be funny, if you're truly in love with your partner and confident in your relationship which is safe to assume since they're getting married, it feels like you shouldn't have been getting married if there's room for such doubts in your mind
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u/Moaibeal 25d ago
You haven’t seen the slavery engagement shoot? It was an engagement between a black man and a white woman and the premise of the shoot was her removing his shackles (as a slave) so he was officially part of the family or something like that.
And a joke doesn’t have to be uplifting to be funny, but I’ve been under the impression that the main idea of this sub is to have posts that make people feel uplifted and positive about the world, I don’t see how this post does that.
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
Damn! That is definitely not my cup of tea, and it's too late here for me to try to figure out if it's even very appropriate or not.
You know to be fair i understand what you say about this sub, personally i feel good after seeing this cuz it's sort of the promise of something i wish I can find someday, a partner to love and all the sappy stuff the comes with it. But i can see how it might not inspire the same feelings for you and that's something i did not comsider
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u/eldue 25d ago
What a bunch of snowflakes there are right here, if its not a disney princess party it is cringe? My god, cringe is reading you all crying over a simple joke. Good luck in life if you take it THAT serious.
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u/zazz88 24d ago
My ex husband made jokes like this. At the time I thought it was funny and I rolled with it. Turned out he was a legit sociopath and a year after our marriage he began to be abusive. During the years we dated and we were engaged, he gave me no inkling that he was a fucked up sociopath, besides maybe his humor. I’m not saying that every guy with this type of humor is a sociopath, not one bit, but believe me I take it as a warning now. If you think it’s funny to make a public joke like this at my expense, you’re out of my life.
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u/MotherofFred 25d ago
For just one day, can he act like a grown man, is what the bride is saying to herself.
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
Or "I'm so happy I'm marrying the love of my life, and that he doesn't have a stick up his ass that he takes out to beat the people over the internet with it"
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u/Meal-Entire 24d ago
Vile and tacky. Not funny. The bride is being publicly humiliated in front of her loved ones. Just no.
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u/Feeling_Bathroom9523 24d ago
I’d dump his ass. MF need his homies approval for everything?!
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u/Fit-Platypus8156 25d ago
This isn’t wholesome, this is dumb. Sorry not sorry!
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
Both are subjective concepts and your opinion of them is not universal
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u/Fit-Platypus8156 25d ago
So take that as my opinion. I’m not speaking for the universe here
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
It's not ok to express opinions with that amount of sass, for lack of a better word. You don't like it, cool then be cordial enough not to demean the people who like it
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u/Fit-Platypus8156 25d ago
Look, it’s my opinion. You don’t have to agree with it. We don’t live in an echo chamber. People have different opinions. Mine should not affect yours. Just as I am not going around downvoting everyone who thinks this is cute. You’re entitled to think how you think and I’m entitled to think how I think. This is the internet. It’s not that serious
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u/hesam_lovesgames 25d ago
Right, but the same thing you said right now could be said like this "idgaf i said what i said" and it would be more in line with the tone of your first comment, but you didn't say it like that cuz you don't want to be hostile. That's the thing, being unnecessarily rude is what I'm objecting to here, and specifically because it's unnecessary, not because it bothered me
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u/glycophosphate 25d ago
I hate it when people pull this kind of grabastic crap at weddings. Try to pretend to have a little class for just one day, would you?
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u/GeneticRays 24d ago
Theatrical bigotry. Sexism.
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u/ItsCaos2304 24d ago
I bet you say that men holding doors open is toxic masculinity
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u/GeneticRays 24d ago
It’s something I do for males and females. It’s Merely polite.
Got any more monkey shit to throw?
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u/ItsCaos2304 24d ago
Jesus Christ and once again the joke flew over your head and hit the dog in your neighbour’s yard. Grow a fucking funny bone my dude
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u/Troby01 24d ago
this is the shit that happens when you get married on a stage