r/MadeMeSmile • u/RealCosmicSnake • 24d ago
This is why we can't have enough libraries Good Vibes
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u/Dull_Impression_7666 24d ago
It's like a cave where u can go and be cozy and sleep peacefully.
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u/kenix7 24d ago
Are we allowed to sleep or fall asleep in them ? Haven't heard of this before ... Not in Romania at least ...
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u/thestiine 24d ago
I work at a college library in the US. On our tours we show students the best places to grab a nap.
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u/draconicanimagus 24d ago
At my college, TSU, there's actually a place called.. Boko's Lounge? (Boko is the name of the mascot).
It's technically a "quiet study area" with desks and rules about being quiet.. but it's filled with comfy-ish couches and you can literally rent a pillow by trading in your student ID until you leave.
It's socially recommended not to rent the pillows, even though they say they're cleaned. I've had many a good stress nap inside Boko's before. It's a great place to relax between classes that are too close to go home between.
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u/PrivateIsotope 24d ago
I dont think you're supposed to, but in the United States, at least my part of it, in some downtown libraries you have homeless people who come in for a free, cool/warm place to sit. They sometimes nap in the chairs.
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u/Ballsofpoo 24d ago
Grab a book, fall asleep reading. Happens to all of us. But yeah, at some point, someone will ask them to leave.
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u/foxyfierce 24d ago
Librarian here. I’d never ask someone to leave for sleeping. I wake them up (without touching) and kindly remind them, without embarrassing them, that there’s no sleeping in the library. I would only ask them to leave for this if they continue to do it despite my warnings. Maybe the 3rd or 4th time. It’s never actually gotten to that point though.
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u/KitchenWalk224 24d ago
Depends on the library (source: US Library Director). I ask staff to wake them up once if they're unfamiliar with the patron to make sure there isn't a health issue. After that, if they aren't snoring, we leave them alone.
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u/foxyfierce 24d ago
No, please don’t sleep in the library. We don’t care if you’re there open to close but please don’t sleep.
The reason is we don’t know if you’re asleep or unconscious. If we see someone sleeping we have to try to rouse them immediately, just in case it’s not peaceful sleep and is actually a medical emergency.
If you need a place to sleep we have the resources to help you find a shelter, but please don’t try to sleep in the library.
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u/rootsnblueslover 24d ago
Also a great source of tons of resources such as new language learning, job search assistance, maker spaces, computers/wifi, scan/copy/print, digital databases
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u/PrivateIsotope 24d ago
My library has Ancestry.com to look up information on your geneology, as long as you're physically in the library. But COVID made it so that you can get access from home too.
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u/rootsnblueslover 24d ago
Ours has an actual stand alone genealogy center.
The resource I really get a lot of use from is Mobius. If they don't have a book, I can borrow it from a network of college and university libraries in surrounding states.
The list in my above post isn't even near complete with all the other services they offer.
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u/PrivateIsotope 24d ago
Yeah, our library has one of those state loan things as well! I used to get a lot of use out of that too, but lately, I've switched to digital books. No muss, no fuss, automatic returns. And I actually got accounts with two other state libraries, so I can check for e-books there as well!
Libraries are a tremendous public resource. Like you said, its' hard to even list all of the services modern libraries have.
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u/rootsnblueslover 24d ago
I've been using Libby now for a couple of months when the ebook format is available.
I can remember my mom taking us to the library when we were kids, and practically living in all my school libraries. The evolution in services and resources at the local library level through all of those years has been amazing.
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u/PrivateIsotope 24d ago
Right! When I was young, my mom would take me to the library and we'd come back with a bag full of books - but I always had to wait to read them because she'd write everything down in a notebook, so we'd know what we had to return and when. She'd write down the one I wanted to read first so I could have it quicker.
In my lifetime we've gone from those little cards you put in the front of the book to keep track of when they're due to where everything is completely computerized, even the books themselves.
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u/rootsnblueslover 24d ago
Me, too! I have over 50 years of reading and library usage. My mom didn't do all that, tho. LOL
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u/PrivateIsotope 24d ago
It was a must to keep all of those little kids books straight! And even when I got a little older and started reading series books. You get about 3 Cam Jansen or Encyclopedia Brown books and they get hard to keep track of!
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u/[deleted] 24d ago
You can also watch movies and other shows online by using your library card. Ebooks are available to “check out”. Yes, a lot of resources.
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u/JamesTDG 24d ago edited 23d ago
I actually got a lot of my old school gaming experiences from libraries (I got an overdue copy of Kotor somewhere in my house, lol)
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u/YochloMinj 24d ago
The only reason I don’t do that is because the last 3/4 times I’ve borrowed movies, the disks were so scratched up that they would skip a TON.
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u/oganhc 24d ago
Wait til you learn of pirate bay
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u/HOWDEHPARDNER 24d ago edited 24d ago
Yeah I don't see how this is much different than piracy in terms of impact to the rights holder. Maybe it's ok because the library isn't making money from hosting the media, while piratebay is? (hosting the magnet links anyway). Even so, that isnt enough of a moral reason for me to go all the way to a library to pick up a movie I couldn't find on a streaming service in my region. Instead its just two clicks away on some unoffical site.
Not to say I dont like libraries, but I dont see the point in getting digital media there.
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u/JamesTDG 24d ago
Unfortunately, I gotta pay a cover charge to use the local library (the idiot who proposed that idea should be taken out accordingly)
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u/NYIJY22 24d ago
Jesus that's insane. My county has over 60 libraries in it. The neighboring County has over 40. You can enter anyone of them whenever they're open regardless of whether or not you have a card, and take out material in anyone of them with any card from any individual library in your county.
The card is free, and the vast majority of the libraries in the system font have late fees, though some still do.
They also have tons of stuff to borrow that isn't books or movies, like videogames, tablets, roku sticks, podcast equipment, kids toys museum passes, etc.... plus have services inside like 3D printers, resume help, notary, etc...
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u/ChowderheadMcGee 24d ago
We tried getting rid of late fees in our library a couple years back. That lasted about eight months, we lost a third of our inventory.
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u/NYIJY22 24d ago
Nuts, we actually have has a pretty noticeable increase in returns since we stopped ours years ago.
Turns out even having to pay 10 cents is enough to makea lot of people just decide never to come back again.
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u/Late_Cat4418 24d ago
You jack it up so it's the value of the book over time and send multiple warnings before sending it to collections if they just ignore you. Nobody takes a 10 cent charge seriously but they do once scary letters start arriving.
My local library will totally send you to collections if you ignore them but will waive/reduce the charge if you just tell them the dog ate it. They warn you about it and it's common knowledge and they don't have a problem with books going missing.
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u/2017hayden 24d ago
Same I live across the street from the city limits of the town I live in. Because I’m “not a resident” of the town I would have to pay a membership fee to enter the library. Not to check out a book, but to enter the library.
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u/jazberry715386428 24d ago
You should go in and stand your ground until you get arrested and then someone will have to explain to a judge why you’re not allowed in the library and then maybe they’ll change it. Maybe also I watch too many law dramas.
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u/ivapesyrup 24d ago
They could but that would be kind of dumb since they were already told why and even relayed in in their comment. They are not a member of that city/county that library is located in. The tax dollars the pay for and possibly even built it were not paid by them so they do not get that access for free. That was the reasoning given. If someone needs to get arrested and have a judge repeat it for them to finally listen that is on them I guess?
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u/_orion_1897 24d ago
Maybe also I watch too many law dramas.
Yeah you do. This is a really stupid idea lmfao
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u/occupy_the_couch 24d ago
If you don’t pay taxes that support the library I think a membership fee is appropriate
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u/Takanar 24d ago
I've never heard of a library charging people to enter. where do you live?
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u/rootsnblueslover 24d ago edited 24d ago
Many are going to or have already stopped charging late fees. Even when they still did, mine was only .05/day.
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u/TheNeonDonkey 24d ago
Yeah my mom said her county stopped charging. I’ll tell you, over the years I’ve probably spent hundreds in late fees.
I stupidly would get 10-15 books (so I had choices in case I didn’t like a few) and if they were a week or two late it would add up to like 10-15 bucks. Don’t even get me started on if you were late with movies. Those were like a dollar a day.
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u/TeoDobrev 24d ago
Haven't given one book back in 7 years, I'm a little worried but I can't bother to go give it back, it's 10 minutes on foot...
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u/randomPerson141 24d ago
But that’s preventing other people from being able to use those resources. Even if you don’t want to pay the fines return the materials so others can use them.
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u/IICVX 24d ago
After seven years they've marked the book as lost and bought a new copy
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u/PermutationMatrix 24d ago
When I was in my teens I found out they had dvd there. I put in a request for a certain DVD and it shipped from another Library in the county to my local library. I was going through with watching all the Star Trek Voyager episodes this way.
One month I was late in returning the DVDs, 3 of them from one season, and they told me I owed them upwards of $700. They changed me the full price of the season times three even though I had 3 discs from the same season. I returned the discs but never went back because I still had $38 in late fees they wouldn't let me borrow until I paid
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u/PrivateIsotope 24d ago
That's why they're trying to get rid of the fees, because it deters people from returning, which is in their best interest.
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u/PrivateIsotope 24d ago
My library stopped charging. They say its not an incentive to bring back books, and it really isnt. If you're going to steal material, you're going to steal material. And they'll charge you if you do. If youre going to be late returning something, youll be late. The fee isnt going to deter you from being late. But it might deter you from coming back, and they want you to come back.
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u/Late_Cat4418 24d ago
If the late fee bill shows up in your mailbox and gets sent to collections, it serves as great motivation to return the damn thing. Those 5 cent/day late fees don't work because there are no consequences for just ignoring them.
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u/FideliaEscobedo 24d ago
In my city, they seem to be the only place the homeless and elderly can masturbate in public without anyone seeming to give a shit.
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u/4Ever2Thee 24d ago
Unfortunately I had a similar experience at the big library in my city. I had to go there for a work thing and didn't have my laptop so I went to use their computers to do some research. You have to check in with the woman at the front desk to request a computer, then you enter the passcode and your ID# and you get to use the computer for a set amount of time. She took one look at me(dressed up in a suit and tie) and said, "we have a few open but I don't think you want to use our computers"
I thought it was a little odd but just confirmed that I did need to use their computers. So she gives me the code info, I didn't have a library card for that library so she had to give me a guest code. Then I go over to the designated computer and notice that it seems like all homeless people using them, then I'm thinking that must be why she didn't think I'd want to use them which I thought was kind of rude, I don't mind sitting next to homeless people using computers and it's probably one of the only places they can access computers.
So I sit down and start doing some work and slowly start looking around and realizing nearly every one of the guys around me were watching the closest to porn stuff they could get away with and they were playing with themselves under the table. Mostly YouTube and I saw everything from music videos with nearly nude women to an instructional breast exam video.
I accidentally locked eyes with one dude and immediately logged out and said fuck that and went back upstairs. I felt like I needed a shower for the rest of the day.
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u/Silly-Competition417 24d ago
LOL! This is how I know Twitter-OP doesn't actually GO to the library.
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u/Junipero96 24d ago
Libraries have always had a special place in my heart and I never knew why exactly but this might just be the reason.
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u/HaroldCranberry 24d ago
At my library the same homeless man takes a shit on the floor every morning
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u/SweatyYogurtcloset4 24d ago
And every librarian has stories about the negative side of unrestricted entry. People taking a shit on the chairs for example. Watching porn in the toilets. Angrily blaming us for Jeremy Corbyn...all happened in the libraries where I work
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u/ASDirect 24d ago
I have all those same stories from food service. That's just called "being open to the public."
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u/Splith 24d ago
Exactly, maybe we should be dealing with mental health, or address the social media companies making us all crazy.
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u/4minute-Tyri 23d ago
address the social media companies making us all crazy
They say while choosing to use reddit. Maybe address your own mental health instead of pushing that burden onto other people.
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u/foxmetropolis 24d ago
still, it's important to have library spaces like this in spite of the unpleasant side of society, although perhaps libraries ought to have more funding to help deal with this stuff. some of it relates to broader issues with homelessness, poverty or mental health, all of which tend to have under-funded public programs (in north america at least). though even in the best scenario, some of it would remain regardless of anything, given human nature.
you could easily make a parallel complaint about frustrations of creepy/unpleasant people using/living in public parks and conservation spaces, though it is likewise still important to have those green spaces inside and outside of cities. we just muddle through trying to deal with issues as they happen :/
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u/Lollipop126 24d ago
Like, I get the message but you know public parks also exist?
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u/cleantushy 24d ago
Reread the post
They're one of the few public spaces
Why do you think they said "few"? Nobody said "they are the only public space". Parks are also one of the few public spaces where you're allowed to exist without the expectation of spending money
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u/creative_net_usr 24d ago
What's truly cringe worthy is how they're trying to do this to nature. Go find a tent site in the wilderness. It's getting harder and harder to get away from commercially run campgrounds even backpacking the adks there's precious few BC sites relative to the number of people trying to wander into the countryside now.
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u/festeringswine 24d ago
There's still plenty of "wilderness" you can go to if you really want it.
Where do you live though? My home state is like 95% agriculture lmao.
Don't blame the park service, blame overpopulation and unchecked immigration to prop up economies
Overpopulation....like we couldn't fit a significant portion if the world into Texas with a higher living density lol. And again where the f do you live where there is unchecked immigration? And where immigrants are the ones buying up huge portions of land, or enacting zoning laws that prevent higher living densities and contributing to urban sprawl?
My town doesn't allow more than 1 "single family unit" aka, no unrelated roommates, on less than 5 acres. So if you want to cut those acres into smaller pieces, have roommates, build more than one house, or build apartments you're SOL. That shit takes up space. It's not that we have too many people, it's that we have too much consumption of resources and land per person. Don't blame immigrants, they have fuck all to do with it. In the US at least
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u/Cookiecuttermaxy 24d ago
Holy wholy shit, this statement is sooo true...
I would have also added(which I expected and thought I was going to read) that libraries are one of the last few remaining public spaces where peace of the mind can still be retained, sometimes I legit just go to the library to escape my mind off rather than just read books or study.
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u/lamenawuer 24d ago
Wait till you discover parks, lakes, fields, outdoor gyms, skateparks, beaches, running trails, outdoor cinemas, etc... It'll blow your mind
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u/mdahms95 24d ago
There’s no ac in ANY of those places
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u/RelativeFox1 24d ago
That’s what makes them great! Although here, it’s that those places don’t have heat.
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u/mdahms95 24d ago
Fair, I would love to go to those places, if I didn’t feel like I was going to melt just existing
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u/reachedmylimit 24d ago
Paid for with tax dollars. Just sayin’.
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u/_lAvAl_ 24d ago
And there a bunch that make you buy library cards
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u/JamesTDG 24d ago edited 24d ago
I gotta pay $15 a month for my library card, and I can't even use it because the library is being remodeled
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u/rootsnblueslover 24d ago edited 24d ago
There's not a bunch. They're normally free if you live or even just work within the same city/county. I pay $50/yr. now only because I live outside the county and no longer work there.
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u/jazberry715386428 24d ago
That’s way too much! At that point audible and kindle are cheaper. Way way cheaper.
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u/mallio 24d ago
Yeah there's no way I'd get enough out of it to pay that much ($600/yr?)
Someone below said there's is 45 per year, which would definitely be worth it. Mine is luckily free to me but I know from Nextdoor that unincorporated areas need to pay like $280 for a year, and even that would make me question if I really needed it.
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u/Hiding_behind_you 24d ago
Socialist libraries?!? Nooooo!!!
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u/SynthwaveVinyl 24d ago
I've only ever had to pay for a library card if I don't live in that city. In my metro, if I want to go to another city's library, it's just $45 a year.
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u/Hiding_behind_you 24d ago
Exactly! Local taxes for services intended primarily for the local tax payers. Out-of-town strangers get to pay a special fee.
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u/LadyRarity 24d ago edited 24d ago
i'm glad the thought of libraries makes you smile! Here in the USA, our library system is being choked out, mostly by conservative/right wing actors who have an axe to grind. Libraries are protested nowadays for hosting drag queens reading childrens books (and make no mistake, the reason they are protested is because of homophobia and transphobia), and here in Illinois we have a movement to save a suburban library system, which was co-opted by organized conservative libertarians who voted themselves onto the library board to slash the budget and remove services from the community.
The more we slide into this late capitalist nightmare (my words), the more our libraries are under assault. Amazon wants them gone, your local anti-LGBT hate parade wants them gone. Frankly it's a mircale they still exist, and they need our help and protecting if we like having that service.
As a bright side aside: getting a book from the library is also a great way to support an author you love! If people are checking out an authors books, that library will want to buy more copies of those books!
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u/iloveuranus 24d ago
I just learned that Uğur Şahin, one of the inventors of the BioNTech / Pfizer vaccine and a son of immigrants, developed his interest for science through books from his local library when he was a kid.
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u/closestvenus 24d ago
I can literally walk around my whole town and exist without spending money. “We live in a dystopia cuz I’m so boring that I need to spend money to have fun” most privileged thing I’ve seen today
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u/tardis3134 24d ago
The fact that people think the US is a dystopia shows this comment section is full of teens who probably have never left their hometown
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u/lattelatto 24d ago
I agree with this closestvenus (spellchecker nearly made me enter closestpenis :D)
Even spending minimally is possible, if you just go around and figure budget. I don’t know what locations have limitations (so I can’t judge), but surely many aren’t as dystopian as proclaimed.
I get the temptation of commercial stuff being around us, but holy fuck, 24 hours in the day to figure what to do and what not to do
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u/closestvenus 24d ago
Exactly, sure if you want the absolute best out of live you need to spend money but saying that most of society has a literal pressure to spend money is absurd. OP needs to learn a hobby or make friends
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u/plasticlunchbox 24d ago
Freaking love libraries. It was a safe haven for me when I was extremely broke after my divorce. I could take a small sandwich and a bottle of water and sit and read for hours and not one person would bother me.
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u/BaconMirage 24d ago
Libraries are great places
free rest rooms
drinking water
computers with internet access
All the books you can read
and much more
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u/thebunnyofluff 24d ago
It’s sad, because here in India we don’t have public libraries like the ones yall have. At best, they have a single room of books donated, at worst there just isn’t one.
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u/halofunky748 24d ago
with the caveat that ours is almost compeltely full of homeless people. all the time. You can never get a computer to use and you dont want to hang because it honestly smells. There is an awesome shelter in this huge city with room and social services referral etc. But Im uncomfortable going to my library.
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u/BruceSlaughterhouse 24d ago edited 24d ago
Don't worry soon enough libraries will be defunded too, to buy the police more military gear for the next fascist coup on America.
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u/CatCan0n 24d ago
24k upvotes?? Wtf is wrong with you people? Go for a walk today.. to the park, stream, or woodlands.. and bring the ducking book too. Leave your phone at home
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u/orpcexplore 24d ago
The public library is one of my first stops when scoping out a new area to live. It's very indicative of how the community views itself and operates.
Recently went to do this again as I am moving soon and it SEALED the deal for me, amongst other things. It was beautiful, had a large science center for kids to learn, laptops to check out and use, 4 or 5 floors of books and I think you can request books from nearby libraries though I'm not certain, they also have audiobooks and streaming services available through your card, they even had a DEMO kitchen where they have demonstrations on using local produce etc and making meals from it. Of course all the traditional community programs and events and outreach. Along with being able to check out lots of culinary tools and pans etc so you can make a random cake once and not need to buy the pan. I fucking love my public libraries!! ❤
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u/cyclothymic-moods 24d ago
This is nice and all but it shouldn’t make you smile. It should piss you off.
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u/OctoberSunflower17 24d ago edited 24d ago
Unfortunately some small cities and towns have cut budgets for library hours.
So the children in those areas don’t have access to the library after school and on weekends like I did growing up. I credit the library as my second home, where I read 40 books one summer. I had access to all the classics as well as lighter fare.
Ray Bradbury attributed his career success as a writer to his public library.
Limiting access to all of a library’s resources is essentially restricting socioeconomic advancement for those without the wherewithal to purchase their own personal collection of books.
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u/TheBananaBandit05 24d ago
I honestly thought I was in r/WhitePeopleTwitter for a second there.
I’m glad I’m not, because I do really agree with this.
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u/Oh-Oh-Ophelia 24d ago
I lived in a town where they hired library "security" to harass the homeless daily and wake them up if they fell asleep.
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u/Kumquat_conniption 24d ago
How on earth would a reminder of our capitalist hellscape be something that makes you smile? That seems like an odd reaction but it was upvoted so obviously I am the odd one here.
I still don't get why though.
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u/tuj77421 24d ago
Starbucks is a store but they also do not require that you buy anything per their new policy: https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.cnbc.com/amp/2018/05/21/a-new-policy-at-starbucks-people-can-sit-without-buying-anything.html
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u/DJ_HardLogic 24d ago
Then why'd I have to pay for a library card?
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u/rootsnblueslover 24d ago
If in the U.S., it's usually because you don't live and/or work (i.e. pay taxes) in their service area. If otherwise, it might be messed up political situation/priorities where you live.
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u/Solas_Games 24d ago
Funny how the factually true comments about taxes paying for libraries are getting downvoted because they go against the 'capitalism bad' narrative.
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u/Peter_Abelard2 24d ago
OP just lied to me. I just looked at my property tax bill, and I see a library fee.
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u/TyppaHaus 24d ago
You pay for it through taxes tho?
Nothing is free, someone is always paying something
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u/[deleted] 24d ago
Technically you paid in advance, or retrospect depending on your tax status. Nothing is free.
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u/BewareOfBlond 24d ago
Do some people have some kind of gland in their bodies that swells up painfully unless they regularly point out extremely obviously things that everyone already knew in a pedantic way? The "uhhhmm ahkshually" gland?
Because yeah, everyone obviously already knew that sherlock. Completely irrelevant.
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u/AndarianDequer 24d ago
Okay, let's think about this.. public libraries have always been this way. It doesn't matter what decade you go back to, it's literally always one of the few places you can go without the expectation of having to spend the money. This observation tries to be clever but this is nothing new.
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u/TruthOasis 24d ago
It also kinda makes no sense you can obviously go to any public area for free with no expectation to spend money a park, a courthouse, your local police station, walking the sidewalks, you can also go into pretty much any store without your wallet and nobody gives a shit if you hang out on the couch at walmart for 2 hours with your buddy, nobody is expecting you to buy anything anywhere. Ive been to resturaunts with people and haven’t ate just had the water, i went to the public school event where they showed you how to tap maple trees and gave us some free maple treats, Like what is she talking about
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u/Adept_Lemon2481 24d ago
Kids get kicked out of my public library for loitering... they were reading
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u/Germanspartan15 24d ago
This kind of location is referred to as a “third place” and they have unfortunately been disappearing more and more each year.
You pretty much need money to even set foot out the door nowadays…
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u/EnycmaPie 24d ago
Unless you don't pay tax, you techniclly still paid for library aervices, libraries are paid with your taxes.
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u/Johnny_the_hawk 24d ago
Idk if you forgot but it costs tax money to build staff and maintain a library
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u/FartsFartington 24d ago
This didn’t make me smile, it sort of made me sad.