Tim Anderson bat drop and walk-off reaction.

[u/handlit33]

[u/TerrenceJesus8]

I look forward to this dude tormenting me for another 15 years

[u/younggun92 → u/TerrenceJesus8]

If he leaves before 35 we're gonna riot.

[u/hanoverprojects → u/younggun92]

so long Colton Montgomery

[u/younggun92 → u/hanoverprojects]

So long Colton Montgomery, SS.

HELLOOOOO COLTON MONTGOMERY, 2B!

[u/TacitlyDaft → u/younggun92]

Is Colton Colson’s younger brother?

Yes, Colson.

[u/younggun92 → u/TacitlyDaft]

I knew it wasn't Colton and I let autocorrect win. Curse you, autocorrect!

[u/TacitlyDaft → u/younggun92]

lol I do not blame you in the slightest. I don't know any other Colsons.

[u/ipreferconsole → u/younggun92]

If Tim ever plays in another MLB uniform ill start a one-man riot. I dont like to name a favorite between him or Jose, but both of them are the spiritual successors to Paul Konerko in the "if you so much as give him a funny look, thats permanent beef from now on" category of players for me

I fucking love Tim

[u/younggun92 → u/ipreferconsole]

Speaking of, fuck Brad Keller

[u/ipreferconsole → u/younggun92]

Fuck Brad Keller and while we're at it fuck Josh Donaldson

[u/fosherman → u/TerrenceJesus8]

Man he absolutely owns the tigers. Sorry man.

[u/lemondhead]

What a game that was. I'd watch 10 more of those.

Were those balls juiced, or were the pitchers that bad and the walls that close?

[u/Accomplished-Monk254 → u/lemondhead]

The fences are like 6 feet tall so any liner that goes 335 on the line goes out.

[u/tiga4life22 → u/Accomplished-Monk254]

So like Yankee stadium

[u/smellyjerk → u/tiga4life22]

The dimensions are based on old comiskey park lol

[u/kralben → u/smellyjerk]

It should be called corniskey park

[u/anaxcepheus32 → u/smellyjerk]

F in memory of old comisky

[u/Redlion444 → u/anaxcepheus32]

F

[u/mbmariogc3s → u/smellyjerk]

Should've based it on the Polo Grounds

[u/freshcoast13 → u/mbmariogc3s]

890 to Center. Right/Left Field 230.

[u/kozilla → u/mbmariogc3s]

Everyone remember the Polo ground for the enormous power alley/CF dimensions, but down the lines it was one of the shortest fields ever... 279 ft to LF, 258 ft to RF. Add in the fact that lots of inside the park homers become possible with those power alleys and I think the park would play a lot differently than people think.

[u/Archer-Saurus → u/mbmariogc3s]

MLB The Show intensifies

[u/CommentsRarely → u/Archer-Saurus]

In this old game called High Heat you could have a homerun derby at polo grounds but the hits would just be home runs if u had good contact, the game didn't factor in distance so if you hit them out in center the ball would just go like 800 feet haha

[u/thewafflestompa → u/smellyjerk]

No shit? That's actually very cool.

[u/Special-Doubt-9739 → u/Accomplished-Monk254]

Wow That's interesting game

[u/DementedUnicorn → u/lemondhead]

Well, and I do not mean any disrespect to the Yankees, one of those pitchers was Andrew "Meatball" Heaney

[u/Patrickrk → u/DementedUnicorn]

That’s not disrespectful at all. It was a combination of a lot of things, bad pitching, players being more excited, humidity, (in my opinion) juiced balls. 16 of the 17 runs scored were by home run. Two of those homers by Anderson and one by Gardner, two guys who are not home run hitters.

[u/UncleGoldie → u/Patrickrk]

Fwiw Tim Anderson may have literally been put on this earth for the express purpose of hitting memorable walk-off HRs

[u/Aperture-Employee → u/UncleGoldie]

Timmy hits homers in the first AB of the game or the last and fucking nowhere else and I love it

[u/Archer-Saurus → u/Patrickrk]

Gardner hit exactly his style of home run: a screaming piss missle that barely clears a short porch in right. Seemed pretty normal to me.

[u/liftoff88 → u/Patrickrk]

Two of those homers by Anderson and one by Gardner, two guys who are not home run hitters.

Weird you’d say TA isn’t, when that was his 13th HR of the season, and not include Seby.

[u/tuckedfexas → u/Patrickrk]

I mean if I’m the MLB I’m sure as fuck juicing those balls. How kinda sad would it have been if the game was 1-0, this game needed to be exciting for sure

[u/michaelt2223 → u/lemondhead]

That’s what humidity does to baseballs.

[u/trymeitryurmom → u/michaelt2223]

Those balls were definitely juiced. Anderson had a 300 ft check swing out earlier in the game

[u/michaelt2223 → u/trymeitryurmom]

Yeah that’s what humidity and heat do to baseballs.

[u/doc_faced → u/lemondhead]

Humidity. Lots of humidity. And the walls were not that high. Some of those HRs definitely stay in the park at regular MLB parks.

[u/oakleez → u/doc_faced]

I mean maybe I'm just used to it, but it's 74% humidity here (I live 20min from Field of Dreams). Could definitely be worse.

[u/SuperDBallSam → u/oakleez]

Wasn't bad this morning, but it got pretty dang humid this afternoon. (Also 20ish minutes from Field of Dreams.)

[u/WxBlue → u/oakleez]

Meteorologist here: I don't like using relative humidity (74%) to tell the story because having relative humidity of 74% when the air temperature is 50 is not "humid" at all in traditional sense. Using dew point is a much better measure on how moist the atmosphere is. The dew point is the temperature the air needs to be cooled to (at constant pressure) in order to achieve a relative humidity (RH) of 100%. As a southerner... any dew point above 70 is pretty humid, with 75 being extremely so. 80 is just soup at that point and can be found along the Gulf Coast and the Lowcountry of Carolinas.

During the game, the humidity at the nearest airport with NWS weather stations (Monticello, Iowa) was recording between 72 to 77 degrees during the game. That's pretty damn humid and can really juice up baseballs.

[u/Ferentzfever → u/WxBlue]

Add in transpiration... an acre of corn can give off 4000 gallons of water per day... and they were smack dab in the middle of 100s of acres of corn. Having played high-school baseball in Iowa (which we play in the summer) on fields next to and/or surrounded by cornfields I can tell you, it's often much more humid on the field than in town / at the airport.

[u/jdd32 → u/Ferentzfever]

Having been a corn detassler when I was 13, can confirm. The cornfields feel like a swamp on a humid day.

[u/p4174w → u/WxBlue]

Yeah I live close by and area dew points this week have been pushing into the 80s. It was a ridiculous week

[u/zerovanillacodered → u/WxBlue]

As a native of the low country in NC... thank you for explaining why I was so miserable mowing the lawn when I was a kid.

[u/UncleGoldie → u/doc_faced]

Also the audible bat cracks on every hit due to the mic set-up at this game made every well struck ball sound like a dong off the bat.

Also so many meatball pitches.

[u/mytwocentsshowmanyss → u/UncleGoldie]

It made weak foul tips sound like barrels lol

[u/Dinoswarleaf → u/lemondhead]

Launching pad weather szn

[u/chaosof99 → u/lemondhead]

As an NHL fan this is basically what the Winter Classic was like for us. Unfortunately then the NHL started overdoing it and had at one point I believe six stadium games in a single year.

I think it would be cool to have this game in that exact location once a year, but if you do it too much it kind of loses a bit of its flair.

Then again, I can't complain too much considering the offshoot Stadium Series gave us the Flyers-Pens game at the Linc in 2019.

[u/[deleted] → u/lemondhead]

I bet adrenaline played a part. Regular season games are repetitive. Games like these bring out the best in players.

[u/SPDScricketballsinc → u/lemondhead]

Wind blowing out, humidity, just a different environment

[u/picachu_456 → u/lemondhead]

Lots of wind rolling though the Midwest lately though

[u/SuperDBallSam → u/lemondhead]

I can't speak to whether or not the balls were juiced. (And neither can anyone else in this thread.) But I gotta think the fact that they were playing on a ball field with only 8000 seats as opposed to being surrounded on all sides by a giant stadium would have some effect on how the ball would fly.

[u/WxBlue → u/SuperDBallSam]

Meteorologist here - I don't think having 8,000 seats make a big difference comparing to having 45,000 seats. At least not as huge of a difference as the Iowan humidity would make during peak corn crop. Locals there call the month of August the "corn sweat" because of how moist and humid the air get from the corn. That would really juice up baseballs.

[u/btmalon → u/lemondhead]

Good offenses on both sides. Open air stadium and almost every pitcher in the game had no control

[u/hereforthesportsbook → u/lemondhead]

Heany is that bad and Britton is god awful

[u/stupidcrap420]

MLB executives sucking each other off in between lines of cocaine tonight

[u/SuperDBallSam → u/stupidcrap420]

Looking forward to the stories I'm gonna hear from my people that work at the Hotel Julien.

[u/Redlion444 → u/SuperDBallSam]

Is that in Dubuque, IA?

[u/flightsim777 → u/stupidcrap420]

TBF if i was an exec, after the insane game tonight, i would probably be in a fridge at the coroners office after how much coke i did to celebrate how well this went. This probably went 300% better then their best expectations.

[u/FirePowerCR → u/flightsim777]

That was a nearly flawless broadcast. They had drones flying all over and getting solid shots and not crashing. Interesting Pregame interviews and videos. A sick iconic stadium next to an iconic movie set. All kinds of perfectly designed throwback aesthetics. And then the game with 9th inning drama with a walk off for the pretty much home team. Like they should do it again, but I don’t see how they live up to that?

[u/stupidcrap420 → u/flightsim777]

That ninth inning was incredible

[u/_Dusty_Bottoms_ → u/stupidcrap420]

SUCK MY JAGGON!

[u/anohioanredditer → u/stupidcrap420]

Uuf

[u/PMMeYourDairyPillows]

Straight out of a movie...

[u/ndemerson → u/PMMeYourDairyPillows]

Tim probably hasn't watched that one either

[u/Baseball_Witts → u/ndemerson]

He said it on a podcast once that he hasn’t and he just wanted to play in a corn field lmao

[u/r-deschain19 → u/ndemerson]

Cold blooded

[u/KVWebs → u/ndemerson]

He wasnt born when it came out

[u/MCrow2001 → u/KVWebs]

Only 4 players in the game were

[u/ndemerson → u/KVWebs]

Neither was I

[u/Notre_Dame_Football]

This game was arguably the best thing to happen to baseball in a long time. What a showcase.

[u/SuperDBallSam → u/Notre_Dame_Football]

As a baseball fan, I'm thrilled with every bit of that. As a native Iowan (live about 25 minutes from Field of Dreams), and a White Sox fan, I am absolutely awestruck. Haven't felt this way about anything in a long time. I just fell madly in love with baseball all over again. Truly special.

"How can you not be romantic about baseball?"

[u/jeffereryjefferson → u/SuperDBallSam]

Yes I am kinda mind blown by how that game turned out.

[u/Tommy-Two-Times → u/Notre_Dame_Football]

Yeah, I love the MLB. So, I couldn’t have been happier about how it turned out.

[u/ndemerson]

Now go watch the movie, Tim!

[u/BoosherCacow → u/ndemerson]

Hijacking a comment to ask what that gesture means, I've never seen it before. Does it have a name or some significance?

I was forcibly reminded of my dad's rheumatic arthritis the way his hands were positioned and holy shit was I not ready for that emotional response.

[u/aceboogie601 → u/BoosherCacow]

Vince Carter's celebration after winning the dunk competition awhile back.

[u/TacitlyDaft → u/BoosherCacow]

Sorry to hear that. That is certainly an unexpected encounter during a baseball game.

[u/BoosherCacow → u/TacitlyDaft]

Nah, don't be sorry my friend. Since he and I shared so much baseball his mug shows up quite often in my head in connection with baseball. It's nice. He wasn't crippled by the arthritis, his hands were just gnarled like that so the association wasn't unpleasant.

[u/Spinmove55]

He definitely earned it. What a game!

[u/ScorchedAnus → u/Spinmove55]

Totally. We will be seeing this on MLB promos for years lol

[u/JayMerlyn → u/ScorchedAnus]

Hey, I'm all for it!

[u/trymeitryurmom → u/JayMerlyn]

I for one am not

[u/wil555 → u/trymeitryurmom]

I can live with it. Field of Dreams, White Sox walk off, can't get too mad at that.

[u/funsohng → u/ScorchedAnus]

Ngl, batflips are cool but I always thought some of the MLB bat drops are as swag as Asian batflips.

[u/huffer4]

That absolute doofus in the front row staring at his phone makes me unreasonably angry

[u/yoursweetlord70 → u/huffer4]

If there was ever a time to not look at your phone, bottom of the 9th with the home team down by 1 at the fuckin field of dreams is it.

Look at your phone between at bats? Fine, between innings is even better. But you paid to watch a baseball game, so watch the damn game. Idiot didn't even see the swing that won the game, but you know he's gonna tell all his friends about how awesome the swing was anyways.

[u/Lionheart1224 → u/yoursweetlord70]

Didn't just pay for it. Paid at least four figures for that ticket.

[u/FirePowerCR → u/yoursweetlord70]

I wonder if jomboy will call it out. His mom or girlfriend was watching and got his attention.

[u/BeardedWonder47 → u/huffer4]

This is how I feel about every game I watch.. get the damn ungrateful idiots out of those seats. Let the real fans pay their hard earned money to sit in the best seats in the house and actually enjoy it

[u/dylansesco → u/BeardedWonder47]

I mean this is why fans in SF hate the wave and beachballs and people say we don't want to have fun lol

[u/Monk_Philosophy → u/dylansesco]

If I can hit a beach ball during a concert and still enjoy the concert I can smack a beach ball during a baseball game and still watch the game.

[u/dasoxarechamps2005 → u/huffer4]

Probably just rich and doesn’t care about baseball. Really fucked up

[u/dreadredheadzedsdead → u/huffer4]

Props to that Cubs fan in the Wrigleyville uni. He was pumped up

[u/nomahhhhhhh]

What a game!!!

[u/bran_bran]

Knew it was gonna be a big night for TA, he just lives for the spotlight (just wish it wasn’t a walk off after a near comeback by my team 😭)

[u/Dusty-05 → u/bran_bran]

fr bro same, after the Yankees had a GREAT top 9th, Tim walked it off in a cool way

[u/bearzbullzsoxhawkz]

That's our boy. Southside King. LFG baby!

[u/SteveH8231]

I. Am. Erect.

[u/Gracie202020 → u/SteveH8231]

Might have to file for divorce after this one

[u/adazi6]

I want to die

That being said, that was a fucking sick game

[u/Patrick2701 → u/adazi6]

Yep, happy that they are going back to Iowa.. next year

[u/Yolopogo]

I so wish he just pimped the hell out of that bat, but that was pretty sweet too.

[u/reese-account → u/Yolopogo]

Pretty tame for Tim Anderson standards for sure

[u/tenacious-g → u/Yolopogo]

Should have thrown it into the corn

[u/Lysol20 → u/tenacious-g]

He did.

[u/HazyIPAs → u/tenacious-g]

This comment made me think of the Muncy/Bumgarner beef and now I want the same thing to happen here where someone says “go get it out of the corn”

[u/MCrow2001 → u/Yolopogo]

I thought the bat drop was sexy as hell

[u/TheThoroughCrocodile → u/Yolopogo]

Maybe unpopular but I'm glad he didn't. If there's ever a time to not excessively pimp a homer, and just do things more the old fashioned way, isn't this the night?

It was already a magical day for all in every way possible, and he just ended it in a story book fashion. Let the moment and the play speak for itself and just celebrate the game with your teammates and fans everywhere.

[u/full_metal_brobot → u/TheThoroughCrocodile]

ah yes, old fashioned baseball. a simpler time with no bat flips and no Tim Andersons

[u/Redrot → u/full_metal_brobot]

Old fashioned baseball, when we could keep out the negros without any problems! Ah yes!

god i feel disgusting for typing that

[u/DonRicardo1958 → u/Yolopogo]

He should have chucked his bat into the corn.

[u/michaelt2223]

Hendricks forgot to tell him they’re supposed to throw the game

[u/dogboyboy → u/michaelt2223]

Other way around. Forgot to tell Stanton. I’m a Yankee fan but you can’t have the bad guys win this game. Had to be the sox

[u/swarlyisback → u/dogboyboy]

I'm pretty sure OP was referencing the Black Sox scandal. Y'know, the inspiration for field of dreams

[u/dogboyboy → u/swarlyisback]

i got whooshed :(

[u/ceejdabeej]

First team all cool

[u/jupiterjaz]

I'm eating all of the pasta tonight.

[u/evcorder]

Tim Anderson the coldest player in all of baseball. Good for him. Good for baseball.

[u/wonderboywilliams]

More runs than hits, how often does that happen?

[u/doc_faced → u/wonderboywilliams]

A's today: 17 runs, 14 hits

[u/wonderboywilliams → u/doc_faced]

Talking about between both teams, but yeah, that game was close.

[u/JDog1402 → u/wonderboywilliams]

We really didn’t add much to the hit column. It’d make it an even 17 each.

[u/sigma4488 → u/wonderboywilliams]

Rays on Sunday

[u/rvnnt09 → u/wonderboywilliams]

In my experience playing The Show online, all the time

[u/rrhinehart21]

This highlight will be played for 100 years.

[u/TigerStripesForever]

Have all the fun you want Tim Anderson😎⚾️!

[u/GeneralMole]

ITS OVER ITS OVER

[u/yumyumapollo]

99 Diamond Tim Anderson is going to be a STUD.

[u/yoursweetlord70 → u/yumyumapollo]

Yes pls, my lineup needs more white sox in it. That the best TA7 card right now is the 88 ovr 42 series is criminal.

[u/Dudeist-Priest → u/yumyumapollo]

Not gonna be; IS!

[u/bepositiveinstead]

How can one man have so much swag

[u/GoldNippleClamps → u/[deleted]]

Are you referring to the absolute Javelin against the Royals?

[u/Peter_Panarchy]

Love the dude zoned out on his phone and the girl smacks him to get his attention

[u/godly_mercs]

I love Tim Anderson.

All my Southside Homies love Tim Anderson

[u/Durango_bob]

As soon as there was a runner on first and Britton on the mound, I knew exactly what was going to happen. The Yankees have done this so many times this year.

[u/IronicTunaFish → u/Durango_bob]

It’s become a competition between my buddies and I. How many saves will the Yankees blow this year? The over/under is at 22.

[u/Mjb06]

Vince Carter-esque

[u/SportsMasterGeneral]

Put this into every vein of my body

[u/holybolt9]

Tim Anderson is a top 5 fun guy to watch in baseball.

And this is from a Tigers fan. If he wasn’t a south sider, I’d buy a jersey

[u/ZarosGuardian]

That game was amazing, but watching Liam collapse like that was infuriating, and it also confuses me that he gets the win even though he blew a save. The way they calculate who wins just never make sense. But hell yeah Tim Anderson!

[u/yoursweetlord70 → u/ZarosGuardian]

That right there is why wins/losses are basically meaningless for a pitcher. A pitcher can throw 9 innings, let up 1 run, and be credited with the loss while Hendriks can do everything in his power to blow the game, and still get credited a win.

[u/rob_s_458 → u/ZarosGuardian]

I think in another thread someone noted that of his 6 blown saves this year, Hendriks went on to get the win in 4 of them.

[u/rvnnt09 → u/rob_s_458]

And somehow the 2 he didn't were against the Royals lol

[u/GoldGlove2720 → u/ZarosGuardian]

Yeah. He hasnt pitched in a couple of games and every single time he takes a break he gets shelled. Not sure what the fuck happened with alternating saves between him and Kimbrel. It gives them more games to stay hot and less pressure when it isnt a save situation. Idiotic.

[u/washyourhands--]

This may be the most perfect game for the field of dreams

[u/MildlyInconvenient]

Tim is up there for just the coolest player in the league

[u/yoursweetlord70 → u/MildlyInconvenient]

He's got my vote

[u/savageofsurrey]

I’m gonna need this card in The Show

[u/Cran-Pita]

I love Tim Anderson so much

[u/Bitches_Be_Bonkerz]

Fucking guy in the background on his phone what a damn shame he missed the crack of the bat

[u/Soxogram]

This was epic! The Sox often don’t get any national love —-it was beautiful to see, that for one awesome night we were on center stage and won in such a dramatic way.

[u/AllOfTheDerp]

Tim has fucking 90 grade swag I wish he didn't play for an ALC team

[u/Own_Entertainment_90]

It’s fucked up that Tim Anderson wouldn’t have been allowed in the MLB in 1919

[u/dreadredheadzedsdead → u/Own_Entertainment_90]

I’m so glad to see the White Sox have 4 black players who are absolute all star caliber. They built the sport, it doesn’t survive without black players.

[u/younggun92 → u/dreadredheadzedsdead]

TA, LuBob, Eloy, and...

[u/dreadredheadzedsdead → u/younggun92]

Ok, All star caliber was an overzealous statement. I mean TA, Robert, BGood and Billy Hamilton.

[u/younggun92 → u/dreadredheadzedsdead]

Hah, yeah those four are the soul of the team too. Goodwin and Billy especially never stop smiling.

[u/Redrot → u/dreadredheadzedsdead]

Yeah, I love the different backgrounds this team comes from and how they all come together so well. Makes it all the more fun to watch.

[u/TysonBison7]

These teams match up so well. We would be lucky to see them in a playoff series.

[u/granno14]

Tim Anderson is the shit

[u/manhyzzer]

FUCK YEAH TIM

[u/4jet2116]

TA is cool as ice, man

[u/Mr-Dotties-Dad]

CHANGE THE GAME, BABY

[u/cawcawthehawk]

Tim Anderson is cool

[u/bgfan26]

This guy is the perfect star

[u/andrew_wessel]

As a Yankees fan, this made me sick

[u/Lionheart1224 → u/andrew_wessel]

But as a baseball fan it made you feel romantic!

...right?

[u/pessimist13k]

That smile, that damn smile...

[u/AsstrosThrascanAgent]

SO ICYY

[u/AngryYank2]

Crazy 9th. Not a fan of the results, but I'm glad Iowans got to see one hell of a finish.

[u/Barkerfan86]

One of the best games I have ever seen. I was almost in tears when I first seen the field and the players walking out from the corn.

[u/GamerNanedTim]

He's so goddamn cool. I really wish he wasn't in the same division

[u/Tadster4]

Anyone know what the handshaking at the neck celebration means? Is it like "no choke" because he prevented them from choking and losing? I've seen it a few times this year now

[u/Shamus_Beaglehole → u/Tadster4]

I think he was saying "it's over!".. basically like calling "game."

[u/dreadredheadzedsdead → u/Tadster4]

Think he was saying ‘it’s over’ and gesturing to indicate that the game was a wrap

[u/NannerRepublican]

A good bat drop turns me on more than a flip ever will

[u/Lionheart1224 → u/NannerRepublican]

Grandal is the HR hitter for you, then. Sexiest bat drops in da league.

[u/DeySeeMeLurkin → u/Lionheart1224]

Also, Yoan.

[u/JcGotNext]

It’s cliche but you actually can’t script a baseball movie better than how that game turned out

[u/ScroogeMcDust]

Quick, somebody swim out to him!

[u/SeannyRotten]

Tim Anderson vs MadBum would be E. P. I. C.

[u/tiga4life22]

For me, Best thing to happen in baseball since jomboy, and I doubt he’ll be commenting on this one 😆

[u/Shade_SST]

Speaking as someone who is ambivalent about bat flips, this is one of those where he earned every fucking second of that. Big bat flip on a solo shot? I'm kinda over that. Enjoying a walkoff homerun in the Field of Dreams game? Hell yeah, have some fun.

[u/BounceBros21]

Now they gotta do a sandlot game

[u/Gatorguy35]

u/savevideo

[u/handlit33 → u/Gatorguy35]

You can just go to gfycat and save the video in a number of formats, let me know if you need help.

[u/lemondhead → u/handlit33]

Hi, idiot checking in. Can you do that on mobile? I can't figure it out because I am from 1927, apparently.

[u/handlit33 → u/lemondhead]

It can be weird sometimes depending on what device you're using, here's the direct link. Let me know if that works.

https://giant.gfycat.com/ImmaculateWhichAfricanaugurbuzzard.mp4

[u/lemondhead → u/handlit33]

Thanks very much, that did it.

[u/Gatorguy35 → u/handlit33]

Oh ok, thanks!

[u/cencal]

It was a stalk-off

[u/weirdshtlikethat]

Absolutely cornographic!

[u/Brady331]

bless his heart

[u/bubbs924]

Ghetti in the bank!

[u/alunsmears84]

Great game, not too happy with the end result. Helluva show though, or movie I should say.

[u/Rebelrenegade24]

COMPLETE

UTTA

BUTTA

[u/mxchump]

I love the lady in the back shaking her BF/Husband when hes on his phone