Dear men maybe instead of expecting women to lower their standards, you should better yourselves

[u/ducksthefucks]

This is geared towards men because men are the majority culprits of this. You can see the comments section of posts of any dating subreddit. Better yourself for yourself not for women. Better yourself spiritually, mentally, emotionally. Learn, grow, ho.

Edit 1: Thanks so so so much for the awards and likes. Love you all may the universe bless you with all its love ❤

Edit 2: Three boys have taken it upon themselves to harass me one the username prism-something and the other scary-crow-something, and youranaway something in my DMs calling me entitled and that they wouldn't marry me (not asking you to) or shtting on my published books. Please refrain from sending me harassing messages because the comments are locked. I didn't lock the comments.

Edit 3: Also 6 boys have taken it upon themselves to DM directly critiquing my post. You're critiques are already in the comments below. Yes I know "women do it to". You don't agree with me, that is fine. Downvote this post and walk away. I posted an observation just like any other poster on this subreddit please do not DM me directly because the comments are locked. This is harassment (especially numerous boys who DMed after my 3rd edit)

[u/CreepingBeauty99]

No worries. I did start it off pretty ambiguously