r/nextfuckinglevel Aug 13 '21

Firefighter snatches suicide jumper out of mid air

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u/Badusernameguy2 Aug 13 '21

You're thinking through the viewpoint of a savior, this person didn't want to be saved. He shouldn't have felt guilt if he didn't save them but at some point we need to respect people's decision to opt out.

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u/Severe-Magician4036 Aug 13 '21

People saved from suicide often say they immediately regretted the choice and very rarely attempt it again. It’s a spontaneous act often driven by mental illness or desperation, it’s not generally a rational decision like physician-assisted suicide is.

https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/means-matter/means-matter/survival/

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u/GUYGIRLEVRY1 Aug 13 '21 edited Aug 13 '21

This has got to be the epitome of survivorship bias. Wtf

Edit: I was just joking. I don't care if its actually survivor ship biased.

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u/MistressLyda Aug 13 '21

And discovered bias. There are discrete ways to end your own life, and if nobody looks too closely? It is even easier.

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u/dpatt711 Aug 13 '21

Whenever I hear the stories of young adults crashing their cars doing 100+ in a 30 I can't help but think some of them are intentional

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u/GingerTats Aug 13 '21

Oof what a risky way to go.

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u/TrikerBones Aug 13 '21

I mean, not really. You either die in the crash, or you starve to death on the street when you end up a para/quadriplegic homeless person. One just takes a little longer, and kinda sucks.

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u/GingerTats Aug 13 '21

It's true, those are the only two possible outcomes.

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u/StarsDreamsAndMore Aug 13 '21

Reddit lives in a world of black and white lol

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u/TrikerBones Aug 13 '21

How many people in the US can afford the round-the-clock care that such disabilities would bring on? How common do you think it is for family and friends to actually step up to that task?

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u/GingerTats Aug 13 '21

Do you think they just wheel them to the street in a wheelbarrow and dump them out? Lol.

At first I thought you were joking but you actually think these are the only two options. And somehow also think that isn't risky. Tf?

Also, places other than America exist.

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u/MistressLyda Aug 13 '21

Ding ding. Applying car to mountain was my plan, until it ended up with that I can not even be an organ donor (genetic issue that will "follow" any organ). So now? I might as well use something less risky.

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u/_raccoon_hands_ Aug 13 '21

Are you okay bro?

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u/MistressLyda Aug 13 '21

Heh. As OK as I'll ever be.

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u/ultronthedestroyer Aug 13 '21

I prefer to end my life more continuously. What have you got for me now?

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u/MistressLyda Aug 13 '21

Heh... I am not quite comfortable with giving out a "meny" of suicide methods to people I do not know. The information is fairly easily accessible, but it is not something that should be picked up as conveniently as a burger at McDonalds.