r/nextfuckinglevel Aug 13 '21

Firefighter snatches suicide jumper out of mid air

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u/Badusernameguy2 Aug 13 '21

You're thinking through the viewpoint of a savior, this person didn't want to be saved. He shouldn't have felt guilt if he didn't save them but at some point we need to respect people's decision to opt out.

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u/Severe-Magician4036 Aug 13 '21

People saved from suicide often say they immediately regretted the choice and very rarely attempt it again. It’s a spontaneous act often driven by mental illness or desperation, it’s not generally a rational decision like physician-assisted suicide is.

https://www.hsph.harvard.edu/means-matter/means-matter/survival/

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u/GUYGIRLEVRY1 Aug 13 '21 edited Aug 13 '21

This has got to be the epitome of survivorship bias. Wtf

Edit: I was just joking. I don't care if its actually survivor ship biased.

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u/KirinG Aug 13 '21

Can confirm. The only thing I regret about my suicide attempt is failing at it.

We hear all these happy stories of survivors who overcome their illness and get a fairytale ending. There are people who don't get those happy endings, people who try and and just keep going for some reason, but just can't make it.

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u/GabbrosDeep Aug 13 '21

I hope stuff improves for you soon