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COMMENT 7d ago
Yeah I would post a screenshot of her response on google and Yelp. Let other people know she doesn’t follow covid protocol or want to answer parents basic questions. Huge huge red flag. Even if your email was demanding or rude which it isn’t, her response is super unprofessional and sketchy.
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COMMENT 7d ago
6 months after being vaccinated you are only like 40% protected from delta variant. Even if he is over it he at least needs to try to wear a mask and get a 3rd shot, the vaccine protection isn’t forever especially without hers immunity. Im in Dallas and I got vaccinated and stoped wearing a mask, Dallas got rid of masks for months and brought them back last week, so I’m trying to get back into the mindset of being careful again. Dallas is only like 50% vaccinated so not great. Once the CDC said vaccinated people didn’t need masks I think a lot of people thought cool covid is over I don’t need to be careful anymore.
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COMMENT 10d ago
Sounds like he has anxiety? Maybe he needs counseling or some kind of meds. Mental health issues can make it hard to make decisions.
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COMMENT 10d ago
I was on the nursing subreddit and they said if people are vaxxed they don’t usually get that sick. Like they need oxygen or some meds for a couple days but nothing crazy. I didn’t read a single post of nurses dealing with vaccinated people that got extremely sick only unvaccinated. I really think he will be okay! Sending good vibes and prayers!!
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COMMENT 11d ago
Im in Dallas I got the vaccine back in March, I’m immuno compromised. Every time I go to Walgreens they are giving out vaccines and the other day every person inside was masked up and in line for the vaccine! Im prob going to get my 3rd shot soon. Some of us really are trying! I think Dallas is like 50% vaccinated.
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COMMENT 11d ago
My friend who teaches 2nd grade is Hardcore anti vaxx. It’s very sad. My hope is schools start requiring vaccines to keep your job.
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COMMENT 11d ago
Lol I live in dumb ass Texas. It’s a mess here. So happy for Brazil! That’s fantastic!
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COMMENT 12d ago
This is way past adhd this is just being an abusive shitty partner. Maybe she has another disorder along with adhd too, but if she is not in therapy and trying to improve it won’t get better. She doesn’t seem to care how she treats you and just expects you to deal with it, and just blames everything on adhd. She sounds really toxic and unhealthy.
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COMMENT 12d ago
This made me tear up, I’m 29 and got diagnosed a few weeks ago I feel SO behind in everything like I messed up my life. Also I was on Xanax for awhile and it was the only thing that made me feel like I could function, now being on adhd meds my anxiety is soooo much better similar to the Xanax it’s crazy!!
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COMMENT 12d ago
Wow I got diagnosed a few weeks ago and I have so many hormone issues, I have severe endometriosis too. This makes SO much sense I had no idea hormones had such an effect on adhd, I just know during my period my adhd is much worse I can barely function. Thank you for posting this! I’m so happy you got diagnosed I really hope things start getting better for you, I have already noticed a difference in just a few weeks of meds I hope it’s the same for you!! Keep us updated!
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COMMENT 12d ago
Wow I’m so happy for you! Reading this made me tear up! I’m 29 and just got diagnosed a few weeks ago and I’m already doing a lot better, but your post really gave me hope for the future!
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COMMENT 12d ago
Yeah I second that, he sounds miserable. People who treat others like that and always want to pick at people/tear them down are extremely unhappy people. It prob doesn’t even have much to do with you they are just wanting to take out their issues on someone, they needed a punching bag. I’m so sorry this happened, people can really suck sometimes.
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COMMENT 12d ago
Wow I feel this, before I was diagnosed I was crying almost daily and just constantly miserable, the smallest thing would set me off for the whole day. I couldn’t handle any tasks or conflict it made me extremely stressed. I have been medicated a few weeks and my emotional regulation is so so much better. Me entire life I thought I had extreme depression and anxiety but it’s mostly adhd
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COMMENT 12d ago
YES I got diagnosed a few weeks ago and I’m 29! I was so scared the doctor would think I was lying or something but then they did testing and I got a 9 out of 10 for severity lol. I had a previous doctor make fun of me for asking about adhd so I buried it for like 8 years until my mental health hit a breaking point. My new doctor is sooo nice though. I have started meds and I’m already Doing way better! Don’t let one bad doctor discourage you I promise it’s worth it! My emotional regulation is better, I fight way less with my roommate now, feel happier/much less anxiety, I can read/watch videos much easier. It’s so worth it to see a new doctor who specializes in adhd, I went to an adhd testing center.
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COMMENT 12d ago
I got diagnosed and medicated a few weeks ago and it made me realize how tense I have been my entire life and having the meds I can actually relax somewhat. I feel you. Happy you are getting better!
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COMMENT 12d ago
If I don’t set my stuff out the night before I forget everything! I have a basket by the door and I have to put my keys there as soon as I get home or I lose them immediately, I just lost my apartment key fob and it was $200 ughhh. Also I have doubles of stuff like one set for home and one set for car lol. ADHD is hard
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COMMENT 12d ago
I got a more expensive fancy toothpaste since I’m not great at remembering to brush my teeth and it’s helped my tooth sensitivity a lot. I just never want to brush my teeth or when I remember I’m too tired and just want to go to bed. It’s so frustrating. Also I hate showers but I love baths so I just switched to baths and do like epsom salt it’s super relaxing too.
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COMMENT 12d ago
This happened to me in Vegas I was like 21 super dumb and drunk, and I thought oh I’ll just go to Walgreens by myself and grab some stuff before we go out for the night, (literally like fake eyelashes and red bull lol not worth it), but he waited at the Walgreens the whole time for me and said I reminded me of his daughter and he just wanted me to get back to the hotel safely. The Walgreens was in a super sketchy area and I was so lucky he waited for me. There was creepy guys in the parking lot and inside just kind of standing around not shopping or anything. He was such a nice man too we had a great talk about his daughter and family I’ll always remember it. I’m 29 now and looking back I just think wow I was young and dumb, but so thankful for people like him.
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COMMENT 12d ago
Man I would not be able to say this I would either say I have a boyfriend or just give him my number and block it later, I am so scared of men freaking out and hurting me.
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COMMENT 14d ago
Wow my cousin is 30 and in the hospital with double pneumonia, he didn’t get the vaccine and he is doing really bad and can’t have visitors. Also he is very overweight and diabetic/high blood pressure too so idk what will happen. It’s scary that even with the vaccine people need to go to the hospital too.
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COMMENT 14d ago
Don’t tell him or your parents until you are moved and safe. Don’t give your parents the new address. Keep everything private so you don’t get followed there. Your husband is a narcissist and when they are losing control they spiral and it will get so ugly, so be super careful. Maybe talk to a women’s shelter so you have a plan for safety. Worse case you have to limit contact with your parents for a bit and only contact your husband through a lawyer for safety.
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COMMENT 14d ago
I have been thinking about you!!! I’m so so happy you got the housing! You don’t need all that furniture to start just beds is fine or sleeping bags even! Being safe is more important than a bunch furniture. You got this!!!
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COMMENT 14d ago
I just got diagnosed with severe adhd and I really think he should go to a doctor for treatment. Adhd meds helped my depression, anxiety, OCD and adhd by like 50% and it’s only been a few weeks I feel like a different person. That’s such a big sign of adhd or mental health issues if you have trouble keeping a job/job hopping. He can even get adhd treatment online!
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COMMENT 15d ago
My anti vaxx cousin is in the hospital with double pneumonia and on oxygen. He is only 30.
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COMMENT 7d ago
My cousin didn’t get the vaccine, got covid was hospitalized for weeks and now has lung damage and has to be on oxygen, they don’t know if the damage is permanent, he is only 30. He gave covid to his parents, but they are vaccinated and they didn’t even get that sick and didn’t have to go to the hospital. That’s why you get the vaccine.