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COMMENT 23d ago

damn you are kind of a dick.

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COMMENT 23d ago

a passenger can get a ticket for not wearing a seatbelt when the car is pulled over.

How do I know? I got pulled over and got a speeding ticket and my stepdaughter got a ticket for not wearing a seatbelt.

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COMMENT 23d ago

Beautiful!

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COMMENT 23d ago

Good for you! keep up the hard work!! WOOT WOOT!!!

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COMMENT 23d ago

Did he give the money to the ex wife? Did he keep it a secret?

No. He was honest about it. He is the father of their child. The new wife has NO position to demand that he stop talking or being friendly with the mother of his child.

As for snowflake, ok Karen. Don't you have a yelp review to write?

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COMMENT 24d ago

She had to go to reblhab as part of her last plea deal. Whether she actually is in recovery, I don't know.

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COMMENT 24d ago

I don't know ... Sounds like a lame answer to your questions, but because I had cut contact with my parents, I don't reach out to anyone else. My brother lives in rh next big town, so that could be why she mentioned my brother. My parents live in a coastal town, I'm in the closest bigger town and my brother lives in the largest city in our region.

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COMMENT 24d ago

🤣🤣🤣

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COMMENT 24d ago

The only issue with that is it would mean I would have to engage with my mother. But that is a good idea to find out the source of the inquiry.

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COMMENT 24d ago

No, nothing from the sister. Just a series of texts from our mother. And I don't know if this was my mom's idea or the sisters idea. Sister is the baby of the family and my parents had always treated her like a gem. Sister could have manipulated my mom into it, or my mom could have just thought of it on her own.

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COMMENT 24d ago

Spicy sky raisins are the worst! Poor puppo

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COMMENT 24d ago

Well when you end up divorced because you tried controlling him, you can stomp your foot and pout.

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COMMENT 24d ago

I guess I don't care if she has changed. The toxicity she has put out has damaged her kids, my parents finances and broken my relationship with my parents. But, you do have a valid point on being too rigid. I do tend to fall on that side of the spectrum, so maybe that is a characteristic I need to watch and keep in check.

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COMMENT 24d ago

There are two types of people... Ones that piss in the shower and the ones that low about it.

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COMMENT 24d ago

Good to know I'm not the only one with that kind of feeling!

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COMMENT 24d ago

It's called keeping a friendly relationship for the sake of the child. Not all people are bitter Karen's, Karen.

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COMMENT 24d ago

And I think that is what made me question myself. That cancer card being handed to me and was I obligated to help. Thanks for pointing out that it doesn't.

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COMMENT 24d ago

I haven't spoken to her in any format in 14 years. And I think you are right. I should stay my course and keep their self inflicted drama out of my life.

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COMMENT 24d ago

I don't subscribe to that view point . She made the decision to choose cocaine over her children . But you do bring up a good point . I don't think I will regret not letting her stay her. I think she can die and I'd not have any feelings of regret.

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COMMENT 24d ago

Nope. Just my mom texting me and asking.

r/AmItheAsshole 24d ago

Not the A-hole AITA for not letting my sister live with me when she is going through chemotherapy

1k Upvotes

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COMMENT 24d ago

Instant forever forgiveness... Just saying.

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COMMENT 24d ago

Immediate dislike for this person.

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COMMENT 24d ago

Rooby-Rooby-Roo!!!!!

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COMMENT 24d ago

First if all... Take that back. You are NOT dumb. It was an honest question. And it's smarter to ask a question before you do something, than to have to fix a mistake. ☺️