Well thank you for your insight. I was hoping someone would one day read this. And you did. So I appreciate it.

I don't think she's a villain I just don't think she respects my wishes. She doesn't bother asking or telling me stuff which is how we keep fighting. If she was actually being considerate she would do the one thing I keep asking her to do, but she doesn't. She's an do first ask for forgiveness later type.

Just because I have a long list of grievances doesn't make her a villain in anyway shape or form. She does good things, just a lot of bad things bother me and those are it. I'm sure there were things that bothered her that I did too. And I'm sure I look bad when she shares her version of events

We've been living together as adults since 2018 and her excuses and reasoning for doing things never made sense but I let it slide. When I started to not let it slide things just got worse.

I am not misinterpreting because I am asking for her to simply just ask for things or let me know first. Like when her car broke down and she took mine without asking. Was gone for hours and said that she simply went to go fill it up with gas to be nice and show that she appreciates me. I know that's BS because she was gone for hours. Maybe she did fill it up after she was done with it but she didn't simply fill up my car for hours. That is not an misinterpretation

It's an accumulation of issues that has happened for years that has led up to big issues and big arguments. In hindsight I should have linked the other reddit posts to show this isn't just one issue that I blew up on.

It's a accumulation of issues that leads to me being upset all the time. Like I said in the original post, she would constantly do stuff and not ask or tell me. I didn't add all that stuff because then the already long post would be longer. Anyway have a good day.

Also she had a kitchen table with no chairs and put stuff on it. I'd put my mail on it and she'd get mad at me for doing that and put it in my room. Said we don't need a junk table. I asked well maybe I could get my own table so she doesn't need to freak out at me and I can do whatever with it and she said there's no room. She would continue to leave her empty boxes and her junk and trash and mail on there but mine was an issue.

You know what actually I do want to say:

she would move my stuff without telling me and I'd have to go around the place looking for it. And she would always say she did it to help me. But every time we had the argument about her moving my stuff she still wouldn't ask me or at least tell me. I'm pretty sure she does things to convenience her and disguises it as something to "help me"

For the first 2 years of living together she'd never clean. She's afraid of dying if she cleans or something. I lay down rules constantly and eventually when I stopped cleaning for her she finally started to clean the bathroom and the kitchen. Her room and living room was constantly a mess but I don't go into her room and I decided to just watch TV in my room instead of the living room. (I wrote about this in a Reddit post and was suggested to place boundaries)

She'd also put her dirty dishes in the dishwasher but never start it, so it took up space. I would do my dishes every Sunday ish and take hers out because there was no space to do mine and she'd get mad at me for not doing hers as well. (I wrote about this a few months ago in a different reddit post)

She'd brush her cat over my shoes so I'd have hairballs on my shoes. She would brush her on the toilet too so there was always hair on the seat and all over the floor in the bathroom. Her cat constantly threw up everywhere too and she wouldn't notice or care to clean it up.

She would be gone for long periods at a time and not tell me so I'd have to guess if I should take care of her cat or not and she'd get mad at me if I over fed her cat. And when I took care of that cat I'd dump out the water and food and actually clean and wipe out her bowls and I'm pretty sure that's the only time her stuff got clean. (She would just dump clean water in the old water when it got low and same with food.) I've talked to her many times about giving her fresh water and food and her at least letting me know when she'd be gone. I don't leave the house much so she'd assume I'd be there and just do it. It wasn't until I started leaving for weekends sometimes to do stuff with friends she'd started asking me.

The place was constantly a mess and we'd constantly argue it put me on edge and really made me depressed. I never looked forward to coming home because it never felt like a home. I'm happy she's gone.

Oh that's what you mean. I suppose you're right.

I learned it this year and I've been trying to share it with others.

Inspiration porn is the portrayal of people with disabilities as inspirational solely or in part on the basis of their disability.[1] Inspiration porn is images, videos, and memes of disabled people used to motivate able-bodied people, suggesting that if a disabled person can accomplish something, then surely an able-bodied person can.

What do you mean the fact that she's moving out make sense?

Had a supervisor who loved making these dolls. It takes a lot of work to do. She spends hours putting on layers of paint and putting in each hair. I do find them creepy but I can appreciate the hard work that goes into these.

I know it's hard to change minds, but I always hope to planet seeds

I tried so hard to finish Glee. I kept hoping if I push through Rachel will graduate and I won't see her anymore. I was informed that she is there throughout the seasons even after she graduates. I couldn't finish the show.

I've gotten into so many arguments about what the US can and cannot afford. People really do think we're poor sometimes. No we are rich, we have tons of money, we just don't use it as we should.

Once I got into an argument on discord because he said there's no way we can afford universal healthcare because we have so many people. Other countries that have it has less people making it cheap. The guy doesn't factor in that our hospital bills are ridiculously expensive for no reason, so maybe that's why he thinks we can't afford it.

I watched a video a few months ago but annoying car alarms. It talks about how it doesn't keep people cars more safe since people normally ignore them.

Why obnoxiously loud car alarms aren't as common today

Seems like a waste to use a Roomba in such a small room. Plus you'd have to keep an eye on it to make sure no one steals it.

Very old. Like probably 2007 old

I played too many mmos where jump was space. I would tap space all the time.. of be afraid of doing that in league and wasting flash

You definitely turned too fast to be looking both ways properly

I don't know this guy so I'm probably the people in the background ignoring him because I'm living my own life.

Happy to have found this comment. American cheese does not belong in Mac and cheese.

I think it's impressive that her dress didn't ride up or she didn't have a panty slip. Not that she's in heels.

Maybe that should be the new trend. Showing people negative test results lol