i’m getting downvoted but it’s ok for someone to say moriahs lips look “ducky”

that’s so rude

if she wants purple hair let her have purple hair

that blew my mind. our litter of is out of sight away from everyone.

YESSS!!

i clicked on it because i was confused. the title to your post IS a spoiler.

i guess it’s a good thing she’s not seeking y’all’s approval then huh?

if being pretty is circumstantial & based on hair color then i really hope i’m not what you consider “pretty”

nolite te bastardes carborundorum. i agree with you. people need to live and let live

who cares?

that was for suicide prevention month (awareness) she posted a selfie from a while back when she was suicidal, bringing awareness to the situation

calling opposing opinions “fans” “stans” or a “fan club” sounds like mocking to me. i digress. i’m here to engage in conversation. OP doesn’t want confrontation but they come to reddit, to a sub, post their opinions, and get upset when they get backlash. 75% of it is unwarranted, mind you. but there’s nothing wrong with a discussion. if they don’t want to read others’ opinions then really they don’t belong on reddit. one time i was on tiktok and was told (TW) “it’s a good thing your dad died” bc of my political views. social media can be toxic. there’s a reason that most platforms have age limits and they come with responsibility. if you can’t handle what all it might entail to see billions of other people on the internet with billions of different opinions, you do not belong on the internet period.

• OP, if you’re reading this- i am not here to harass you. i’m sorry that others have. i want your opinion and i want to discuss opinions with you. i want to know why you believe what you believe. i am not here to condemn or threaten you. *

NTA. she should have approached you and asked why he had a muzzle on before jumping to conclusions. i had a negative outlook on muzzles too until about a year or 2 ago. some dogs just don’t react well with public interaction and it’s for their own safety.

in the event that it was an animal being abused, i don’t think the owner would’ve been open and honest. however, it’s obvious that Maximo is not being abused. i would pursue the charges.

clearly you misunderstood the point of my comment.

what i’m saying is, every comment they see that is not hating on olivia, they’re calling the olivia fan club. however those who have made good, valid points haven’t had a response. i’m engaging in conversation. no mocking from me.

ETA: i’m sorry that you have received death threats. genuinely. no one deserves that.

sending hugs and love !! thank you!

yep.

ugh touch grass

right. OP is calling us the “Olivia fan club” saying we’re “bullying/swarming [them]” but they have yet to respond to these comments soooo

exactly. i have depression and in the end if i wanted to, i could roll around and sulk all the time but i have to decide for MYSELF that i need to do better and get help.

ok then what was she doing when she was pushing him to go to therapy? couples therapy too? trying to get him help? you can’t help someone who doesn’t want help.

what most people aren’t understanding is we have to prioritize our own mental health before others’. respectfully, it’s Ethan’s responsibility to admit that he needs help, because you can’t help someone who doesn’t want it. that’s all there is to it. Olivia is not “in her own feelings” she’s in individual therapy. she tried to get Ethan to do it. she’s also in couples therapy with him. y’all gotta quit blaming her for all of Ethan’s problems. Will Smith said this about his wife, “her happiness is not my responsibility. she should be happy and i should be happy individually. then we come together and share our happiness. giving someone a responsibility to make you happy when you can’t do it for yourself is selfish.”

OP, NTA. TW

when i was 1, my parents divorced. at 4, my dad sexually assaulted me. i didn’t remember it until late. when i was 10, he got remarried and moved to texas where his wife lives. he promised me he would come back on birthdays, holidays, etc. there was an excuse every time. at 11 he was trying to manipulate me into flying out there on a plane by myself. at 14 he finally convinced me to fly out there. it was in the summer. at 15 during the winter he flew me out again. i never saw him again because in 2017 i remembered the SA. went no contact.

i say all this to give context to what i’m about to tell you. he had 1 other child from a marriage right after my mom, then the woman he married and moved to texas with had 3 of her own. i haven’t spoken to my half brother in 4 years (not either of our faults) and the step kids, longer. they resent me because they think i’m a liar, and i resent them because i don’t understand why my dad could be a parent to them and not to me. he never paid child support, either.

my dad never made an effort to come to me. it was a 12 hour drive, 2 hour flight. one time (just like yours) my mom offered to fly me out, and he said he “didn’t feel like entertaining.” it hurt so bad, but i learned where his priorities were at. he now has 2 grandkids from his stepchildren. he’s reached out to my mom once wanting me to sign something so he could get retirement. meanwhile i’m changing my last name.

don’t you dare have any regrets. he’s a revolving door father and i promise you’re better off without having to worry about whether or not he wants anything to do with you. please consider therapy. everyone could benefit from therapy. good luck, OP.