Good luck man.

Maybe offer to go a day using female pronouns or a different name to let your partner see how it feels or if they like it? It might feel like too much for them to ask of you, but may (or may not, who knows) be appreciated.

Ok, but you didn’t offer prior to that. You didn’t invite them over (at least, that’s not explicit in your original post which you’re so emphatically hoping on as gospel). You didn’t say you had something important to talk about. You didn’t say shit until after your sister did, when you should have been explicit about this from the moment she was cut out of the will years ago.

Accept that you fucked that up and that your sister was also an entitled dick and move the hell on, dude. You’re supposedly only too happy that you are fully no contact after you and she managed to completely fuck up your relationship. So accept your part in it and get off this throw away.

Sounds like your mom is more racist than she would like to think if she prioritizes “family” over cutting off their bigoted asses.

It’s you! You’re ruining whole batches! Shame! Shame!!!

/s

That’s not what I said - I said you didn’t say anything to her until she came by - which you just explicitly confirmed by stating your assumption that she would “need” you there in person.

I told her immediately when I knew about the inheritance and offered it to her before she even asked for anything as well.

So do you mean that as soon as you knew about the inheritance you told your sister you would give her 50%?

I obviously did. I finally got tagne2 to stop hassling me and now it’s you.

Yes, you offered, but you didn’t say anything until that meeting, no? Why weren’t you proactive about it?

Haha girl the red flag is that you don’t like him but you’re still dating him

Typically the concept is then redistributing funds to other deescalation options which are also available on call for immediate site visits.

Jeeeeeze

Yea, don’t scream at them, just cry. Wail a bit.

Ugh. Complain to your city council rep?

I hope you’re crying in the customers’ faces. Make them uncomfortable. Re-humanize yourself to them.

You can always call the police. Even if that isn’t necessarily your store’s policy. If there is someone you need trespassed from the store or who is being violent you can call them.

Look, we clearly have different perspectives on this. I think that the morally correct thing to do if your sibling is cut off solely due to bigotry is to immediately (as in, before anyone is anywhere near death) promise to split whatever inheritance may or may not come as though they hadn’t been excised and then continue to follow up on that. You appear to have a different perspective. We disagree. Bye.

And hadn’t said anything to her sister until she came round with the fertility issues.

She only thought to give her half when she and her husband came around with their fertility story. She should have simply done it. Immediately. Rather than validate the fact that her sister only didn’t receive 50% because her parents were homophobic.

This is literally not a stretch. It’s essentially the standard /r/aita response when questions of inheritance and homophobia are raised.

I’ve literally never heard of it outside of the bridal party.

Is she buying it or shopping with MIL for it? Ambiguous.

I mean, she is though. But like I said, this is what I would do and that I think that if she had done this initially when she got the inheritance which was only 100% hers because of her parents’ homophobia then she would have cut this whole mess off at the pass.

I would still cut her a check for half. Otherwise you’re validating your parents’ homophobia. You should have done that as soon as you received the $ and cut all this mess off at the pass.

That probably refers to just… omitting the wife’s name entirely, a la “Mr. and Mrs. John Doe”

You can avoid them too. You just need to get out of the problematic relationship.