Edit: I was as to negotiate with the ones organizing the meeting to schedule for another day. I may have been panicked because I stopped Prozac for a while. I’m really sorry for lashing out like that, and thank you for your understanding.

I’m trying to get my diagnosis. Due to my parents not accepting me receiving mental healthcare, I had to do everything in secret.

It made my life so much easier when I finally got Prozac. I could finally sleep. Little to no obsessions or intrusive thoughts. I also stopped having pica.

But I can’t get a diagnosis in most places without involving my parents. Until I found someone who could give me one.

Thing is, if I miss tomorrow’s appointment, I can no longer have another chance at it. The health system is clogged and all.

I had everything planned out. Told them I was going out and all. But now, I can’t, because our basement got flooded and I have to stay in order to help them.

I know this is what I get for wanting the best of two worlds: my parents’ support and getting behind their backs. But I just didn’t want to keep suffering anymore. I just want it all to stop.

  • Apepollo11@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    Is it possible to just tell them it’s a medical appointment, but it’s about something that you don’t feel comfortable talking about?

    It’s the truth, it explains the secrecy about the appointment, but it keeps the secret.

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      3 months ago

      In here, there are no medical secrets :). I don’t even have a doctor yet, so it wouldn’t make much sense.

      I also feel conflicted on advice. There isn’t anything I could do to fix this, but I appreciate it. Thank you.