I’m learning that being told “you’re too sensitive” and other such remarks is considered gaslighting. However, as autistic individuals, we are known for being highly sensitive, both with perceptions and emotions. So, I find myself wondering if perhaps I need to consider that I am more sensitive than the general population and accommodate what I see as their insensitivity, dismissiveness, and blame-shifting.

How do you handle being told “you’re too sensitive”?

What do you think would be a healthy response?

  • Raffster@kbin.social
    12·
    1 year ago

    There is no healthy response to gaslighting is what I have found, intentional or not. People will not change their perspective for you. Walk away.

      • Raffster@kbin.social
        51·
        1 year ago

        I am pretty far gone on that journey, have always known the consequences. Had to leave a marriage because of this, will not ever work a big job again (despite having multiple higher degrees) and willingly so. Will walk away from everything eventually. All because the alternative sucks so horribly that I prefer it this way.

      • BOMBS@lemmy.worldOPMEnglish
        2·
        1 year ago

        Interesting to see all the response here as I can relate to them so much.

        Same! I hadn’t realized we were having similar experiences, but it’s nice to know we’re not alone.