Apparently I don’t have the mods account it’s just verified on the app. Seems like mods on certain comms just make up whatever placeholder reasoning when you don’t break the rules. I thought you had to blame the victim to victim blame and my post didn’t blame anyone for anything.
I’m the mod. If you want to see which mods do what, https://phtn.app/ shows it all iirc.
This was the context you left out: https://lemmy.dbzer0.com/post/38049576
A post on [email protected] of you telling someone they should accept their abusive parents. Seriously? And you think comparing yourself to their father is a good thing?
Really? You think you can go to a mental health community and tell victims to just accept their abusers? Read the room, man. I just inherited the community, too, so i’m not done actually revamping the rules.
I, and anybody else who had abusive parents would look at this and flat out say YDI.
I said accept that their father is a negative person, not accept their abuser as you put it. It’s actually good advice are they supposed to think constantly about their father is verbally abusive, not repress it?
That may be inappropriate and I may disagree with him but it is not a victim blaming. He may have broken other rules (I am not familiar with that particular community) but not this one.