I feel like engaging on Lemmy (at least the NSFW side of Lemmy) is almost pointless. Maybe it’s because I’m a straight guy (no hate for other genders/sexualities), but I only ever had real engagement on the first couple posts I made to any of the NSFW chat communities here.
I have always liked online roleplay, and was quite active on Reddit’s DirtyPenpals community back before I swore off Reddit because of all the changes and being forced to use the official reddit app. It was sort of like this there as well, but there was for sure more activity on Reddit. I’d usually get a message every other post or so.
I’m interested in what you all think and have you had any luck on communities outside of Reddit at all? I’d hate to have to go back there, but right now, it looks like it may be the only option.
Feel free to comment, dm, or send me a message on Matrix (tw94:matrix.org)
the centralized ownership and domain allows for easy community growth vs fragmentation of fediverse. /r/ had that community niche for a while until the mass exodus. sure there are ones that remain, but they have to find roots elsewhere eventually so I’d say dig in and try. if not lemmy then where? if user base is important then lemmy isn’t the answer. that’s more Mastodon for fediverse.
i don’t post much here but I do comment and get ok interaction levels. sure lower than reddit but every community there was vastly larger.
See, I greatly prefer the forum nature of Lemmy over Mastodon. I just hope I don’t become annoying to some of I continue to be the only one posting in these communities.