Very submissive guy from Europe, heteroflexible

Want to experiment with exhibitionism.

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Cake day: November 15th, 2023

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  • Yeah try to check the fetlife community in your area perhaps. If you haven’t already. But I know, Shibari takes a lot of practice! And knowledge about anatomy. One of the friends who ties me told me she studies 2 hours a week and has done so for 5 years and she still doesn’t consider herself very knowledgeable.

    Even if someone isn’t into it they could be your “safety buddy”. Though for me personally they’d have to become a friend first before I’d trust them enough with that.

    I was that for a friend when we started out though she has a full time Dom now so she doesn’t need it anymore. But we were always watching each others’ backs in the club.



  • Oh I see. I did a course on self shibari but it ended up too complex for me. I’m just not wired for that. I do love tying myself with leather though.

    But I prefer if others do it. I don’t have a fixed play partner but I have some friends that practice on me sometimes. And I often go to the clubs and get proposals sometimes.

    But I wish I had more of a head for it. It’s great. You’re smart not doing suspension on your own because that can really get into danger territory if you’re not extremely careful.