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Cake day: July 18th, 2023
  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comtoChastity Community@lemmynsfw.com•How do you engage in chastity?English
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    16 days ago

    I’ve been self-locking on and off for several years. I now use a cherry keeper cage that is basically the size of my glans. Sometimes I put it on as foreplay to fapping in the next couple hours. Mostly I try (barrier is comfort) to wear it all-day on days that I wear it. I’d love to be able to wear it as much of the time as possible (eg, 24/7 and only unlock for small periods of time for predefined tasks like routine hygiene). I suppose I’m slowly learning to wear it for longer periods of time. I often but not always unlock and fap/masturbate afterwards - before I go to sleep for example. I’m more interested in the gendering and orgasm control effects of chastity (eg, can’t fap, masturbate, or penetrate anyone and are sub-like) than I am pure orgasm denial. Having a partner who is my keyholder would be a dream come true. I suppose I’m slowly working my way there (hopefully) as I become more confident with who I am, including that chastity might be a sexual non-negotiable for me (not all the time necessarily, but at least some of the time).

    More the 'why' I engage in chastity (content warning: gender dysphoria):

    Chastity is a fun fetish but on a more holistic level, I’m beginning to see my desire to wear my cage as a barometer of gender dysphoria. For example, if I wake up and want to put on my cage right away, I’ll do so but I’m also making a mental note that I’m probably feeling significantly dysphoric and I should address that today beyond just the cage. Because the cage is great but it’s not an all-in-one long-term solution to gender dysphoria for me.

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comtoSissy Captions@lemmynsfw.com•Would you rather...
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    3 months ago

    A guy coming in my mouth would be sooo hot, which I haven’t actually had even though I’ve given head, and that’s what I’d pick. It feels degrading to me but in the best and hottest way possible. I’d like to taste it. I love the thought of him thrusting in my mouth when he’s close and possibly shooting down my throat too (although I wouldn’t get to taste it in that case)

  • chloespanked@lemmynsfw.comOPtoChastity@lemmynsfw.com•Headless Cherry Keeper reviewEnglish
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    4 months ago

    Ah yes, ring chafing. I put lotion/lube around the ring after I’ve got the cage on. I haven’t bought any special products for this, I just use what I have around the house. One improvement I’ve found recently is a dual-layer method. I have a thick body butter (ie, dense cream) that’s my go-to and that I apply first, but I will sometimes put a water-based lube layer on top of that. I have yet to try to use sandpaper to further smoothen the plastic ring (that’s already pretty smooth from wear). And metals cages are probably better than plastic in terms of chafing.

    I succeeded to come on the first attempt with the exposed head and vibrator. I think it was easier than using a vibrator without wearing any cage because the cage is a turn-on for me and the head and frenulum (ie, targets) are conveniently held in place