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Owner and proprietor of the Demonologic Porn Shed ([email protected]).

Lesbian or lesbian-adjacent, and a pretty girl enthusiast. A “they” or “she” – I guess I’m a themme?

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Cake day: November 4th, 2023

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  • Oh yes, I’m absolutely not disparaging smol and humble boobs and I really am an equal opportunity boob enjoyer 😀 But also I’d be a dirty lying liar if I said that I don’t go absolutely aaaaaa when I get my grubby paws on ones that are bigger than mine.

    Cult of the Lamb is the only one out of those I’ve even tried and I was terrible at it – dunno if it’s the whole “being middle aged” thing or what but I can’t deal with too much action anymore 🤣 Give me a weird adventure game like Kentucky Route Zero or a hugbox like Sable and I’m a happy 'lil nerd.











  • I don’t think NSFW content is bad, I feel like in fact having different sections for NSFW posts makes community bigger because it attracts people.

    Yeah definitely! Porn / erotica has been a huge factor in the popularity of the whole internet, too. Like you said in your post, currently lemmynsfw is mainly specifically porn; it’s an “easier” format than more conversation-based stuff because Lemmy really doesn’t have critical mass yet and the majority of people just mainly lurk and don’t comment / post (like it is with any social network.) Contrast this to the fact that there’s smutty chat subreddits that have more users than the entirety of Lemmy 😅

    I did notice that a lot of people have “sex is dirty” mindset (elsewhere not here) and then they can get pretty rude and underhanded like anything goes because basically they associate sex with something dark and secretive.

    Ugh I get what you mean. Weirdly enough it feels like younger folks are a bit more in that mindset than us old farts, like attitudes have gotten more conservative instead of less when it comes to sexuality. Well, at least partially, there’s good things too of course.

    But yeah anyhow, could be that your best bet right now could be to try and be active on [email protected] (or others like it, I actually don’t know what the options are here for that stuff) like you’ve already done, try to strike up conversations? Might be a bit of a grind but you already managed to “activate” people a bit which is great!


  • This could just as well have been written by me. Especially the bit about how “people who know themselves and are unapologetically authentic about it are just lovely” really resonates with me; one of the benefits of being middle aged is that people do tend to sort of find themselves as they get older, and just be way less stressed about how they seem to others.


  • Benefits of being a lesbian 😅

    But yeah, lemmynsfw definitely can be a bit of a sausage fest. The Fediverse and Lemmy especially are niche enough that a lot of the users are techy types (like yours truly, heh) which does tend to still bring a gender bias with it.

    If you have the spoons for it, you could occasionally post the kind of stuff you’d like to see? It might feel like shouting into the void since yeah, not a lot of women here (probably more gay guys), but every change has to start somewhere, right?

    Might have to create and mod communities though, which is a whole 'nother can of worms if posting isn’t restricted