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Cake day: June 10th, 2023

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  • Not sure what you mean, but here are some considerations. See which is important to you and then others can opine?

    Taste (subjective. E.g. I find anything that is tetrapak vs refrigerated to have a ubiquitous off taste)

    Versatility
    (some hold up better in hot liquids than others; or have a necessary thickness for cooking or baking)

    Nutritional Profile
    (soy is usually naturally higher in protein; oat and rice milk are high carb / glucose load)

    Cost

    Quality of ingredients, including how processed they are

    Inclusion of undesirable ingredients
    (e.g. oils, thickeners)

    Ecological impact
    (Amount of water to produce e.g. almonds vs oats; over harvesting e.g. coconut)







  • It’s interesting to notice how potent the stigma is around the topic. Like, I feel that I should be creating an alt account just to ask a question on here to avoid association with the topic…

    A few things come to mind:

    Is this something that you experience urges around? If so, what outlet do you provide them? Are there certain mediums like written stories or hentai that you find acceptable?

    I notice that for all the disgust expressed around pedophilia, there is also rather rampant sexualization of children and teens. Not just in hentai but in, say, beauty pageants — and now, apparently, via AI imagery — occurring across many nations/cultures. Curious what you make of this.

    What is the endgame of pedophilia? Like, even if it were permissible, what would you be seeking? How do you reconcile with the reality that a kid will age out of the zone to which you are attracted? I guess: is it something that is more about the fantasy? Is there a sexual component, or is it a sort of a Michael Jackson thing, where you prefer their company?

    Finally, just want to mention that there are often low fee options for therapy. They might be with a pre-licensed person, but the quality of treatment is dependent on the match with the therapist anyhow. No idea how you’d find someone willing to work with you but, given you don’t report having acted on any urges, your information remains confidential and you can shop around until you find someone who is willing to do so.



  • +1 on Vinyl music player

    afa music collection, I slowly shift things from folder to folder where I gradually cull tracks which I decide I no longer need to hear. I curate rather than hoard (although I see long term value in others opting to keep everything for the sake of all; so ‘hoard’ is not intended to judge those who do in this instance).

    To find new music, I lean on Bandcamp. ofc they’re trying to sell the artist on the platform; but the blogs are often quite good, steering me to stuff I would’ve unlikely discovered on my own. If I identify a new genre that I’ve gravitated towards, I read up on it, e.g. on Wikipedia, to find other artists emblematic of the style