It’s probably a cross between not as bad as you think and exactly as bad as it sounds— a bit more about managing expectations and hoping that you can pause during cut scenes

The next bad thing is now I’m apparently also old so I can start falling asleep at 11ish :-/

Personally I apply the pomodoro technique to my gaming and use features like quick resume to play really long games in short intervals

Switch controller hands down— the drift is annoying, but the worst is when half your controller just disconnects

I think elder scrolls online has 4 player dungeons but questing can mainly be done in a large group

https://en.m.uesp.net/wiki/Online:Grouping#:~:text=Regular Groups consist of up,and AvA battles in Cyrodiil