“it do be like that sometimes” is starting to lose it’s magic a little

  • I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world
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    From one of Patton Oswald’s stand up specials, he shares his late wife’s mantra, as a devout atheist: “It’s chaos. Be kind.” Nothing means anything, nothing happens for a reason, things just happen, they only have the meaning we bring to them, be kind.

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    “it’s not the worst thing that’s ever happened to me.”

    And even if it turns out to be, we’ll only really know in hindsight.

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    This is probably a toxic one I learned from my teachers that time I tried learning Korean:

    If it feels like you’re drowning it’s cause you haven’t died yet.

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    When I was young life was pure chaos. It was a constant battle and I often looked for things that would ground me and let my mind rest for a bit. I discovered the Peter Gabriel song Washing of the Water. I really liked how he sang it and so I memorized the words. They are good and when its a very dark time for me, the words are a great way for me to gain a little mental peace.

    The whole song is beautiful. The perfect balance of wanting calm in hard times and finding peace in the nature of things https://piped.video/watch?v=Ic4N6rT6Qks

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    Living in the “self esteem” part of Maslow’s pirimid when you are battling basic needs aka allergies, sleep, dehydration, dimentia, etc is a good way to be depressed. Focus on preservation of assets and restoring basic functions.

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    *shrug shoulders*
    Eh…

    I don’t have the vocabulary for a good mantra like most of you. But a shoulder shrug and a “what are you gonna do about it” kind of noise is enough for me.