I regret something and could use some advice on how to move past it. Recently, I was browsing YouTube and saw a comment from someone asking for help removing a stuck ring because their finger had swelled in the morning. I responded with a possible solution. A few minutes later, I deleted that comment and reposted the same advice, but this time, I also asked them to record and upload a video of the ring removal attempt.

Unfortunately, by the time I added the request to record, they had already seen my first comment and used the method I suggested. It took them one hour in total to remove the ring. I was really looking forward to seeing a video of the process because no existing videos are that long (most are around 30 minutes at most). They even mentioned they had a tool that could have easily recorded the attempt, so I missed a great opportunity to see this interesting and lengthy ring removal.

Now, I feel such regret because I had control over the situation but still wasted this chance. I know it is trivial in the grand scheme of things since it is just for entertainment, but I cannot help but feel disappointed. Asking the person to get their ring stuck again just to record it is obviously not an option, so I will never be able to see that footage.

Since this did not really affect my life in a major way, the usual advice on how to get rid of regret might not be as effective. How do I move past this feeling of missing out on something that could have been really interesting to watch?

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          4 months ago

          Nothing. It’s just an odd question because most people don’t see or understand how someone could be interested in this. They assume it’s something sexual or otherwise kinky. I think it’s just an obscure preference and people are once again forgetting that this is No Stupid Questions…

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            4 months ago

            I do neither watch porn nor want to go to PornHub, so can you tell me what happens when searching for that?

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              4 months ago

              It’s a common theme in some porn “plots” now. Step-mom gets head stuck in the dryer while cleaning, and what do you know, time for the step son to stick it in her butt.