• mindbleach@sh.itjust.works
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    16 hours ago

    My guy, even you thought he crossed the line. You actively chose to believe it was banter. That does not guarantee it was.

    I understand what it’s like for bigots to look at you and assume you’re on their side. It feels friendly. It’s intended as friendly. It’s still bigotry. They’re telling jokes - but they’re not joking.

    • Almacca@aussie.zone
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      10 hours ago

      I never said he said anything bigoted or offensive. It was so long ago that I can’t even remember exactly the sort of thing he said, to be honest, but I seem to recall they were more weird than offensive.