• MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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    4 days ago

    Yes, I’m actually serviced oriented as a sub so I’m well aware. I have a partner who is vanilla and not dominant in the slightest. It’s not exactly possible to be in a committed relationship and “serve” someone else full time.

    • Lightor@lemmy.world
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      4 days ago

      I’m dom and my wife is switch. I think the best way is to have sessions or days set aside for it. Lifestyle dom/sub can be hot but like most things you gotta give it breaks to keep it fresh. Just gives room to try other things.