PrettyFlyForAPornGuy@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 6 days agoWhat is your kink that you will likely never get to try?NSFWmessage-squaremessage-square97linkfedilinkarrow-up120arrow-down12
arrow-up118arrow-down1message-squareWhat is your kink that you will likely never get to try?NSFWPrettyFlyForAPornGuy@lemmynsfw.com to Ask Lemmy NSFW@lemmynsfw.comEnglish · 6 days agomessage-square97linkfedilink
minus-squareSwingingTheLamp@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·3 days agoYup, confidence is a performance, not a feeling.
minus-squareThrower@lemmynsfw.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·3 days agoNah it is a feeling. It just impacts your behavior. Like fear impacts your behavior, or anger… Or hunger…
minus-squareSwingingTheLamp@midwest.sociallinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·3 days ago“Confidence” in the context of romantic success, I mean.
minus-squareThrower@lemmynsfw.comlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·10 hours agoOf course, the other person only see the actions and technically it could be a performance, but you will fail to perform it if you don’t actually feel it.
Yup, confidence is a performance, not a feeling.
Nah it is a feeling. It just impacts your behavior. Like fear impacts your behavior, or anger… Or hunger…
“Confidence” in the context of romantic success, I mean.
Of course, the other person only see the actions and technically it could be a performance, but you will fail to perform it if you don’t actually feel it.