I have yet to find an answer that makes sense to me as to why I have a foot fetish. The concept doesn’t make sense to me at all. Yet , it’s as much a part of me as my personality.

  • Mr_Stellar@lemm.eeOP
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    5 days ago

    Thanks for taking the time to write all that, it is very interesting. I have heard similar theories and too have come to the conclusion that i most likely will never find the complete answer. I know I discovered it round about the pubescent age, but didn’t really understand what was going on. Only later on I started to indulge in it, If I could call it that. I do however remember the first time I told someone about it and got completely shamed, which in turn lead me to be very secretive about it. To this day in fact, literally only told 2 people. Well 3 including the guy who shamed me about it.

    I have also come to realize that people don’t understand how strong the arousal is. It is literally like seeing an amazing pair of breasts or an ass etc. which are generally more common assets for arousal. The difference however is that it’s absolute commonplace for women to show their feet and toes. So as a fetishist you could be confronted with awkward situations at any point place etc. However there is a misconception I believe, that most people who don’t have the fetish think that we get aroused by any feet. Which is absolutely wrong, it’s the opposite, I am only attracted to a specific feet, and actually pretty disgusted by feet that don’t meet my type.

    Anyway, this is my way of anonymously sharing my thoughts about something that I deal with everyday, yet keep secret. And I love having the fetish, because the level of arousal is unmatched with any other body part, and when they do all line up together, it’s a whole other level. Haha thanks again

    • southsamurai@sh.itjust.works
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      5 days ago

      In my mind, though I don’t share the fetish, it’s no different than enjoying any body part. I have no idea why people get bothered just by the fact of someone being into feet. Yeah, fetishists can sometimes be jerks, but not to a higher rate than anyone else.

      It sure as hell doesn’t hurt anyone.