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Cake day: June 19th, 2023
  • Australis13@fedia.iotocats@lemmy.world•Tell us about your soul cat
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    3 months ago

    Your clever cat sounds like our Whisper. He is very intelligent and loves to explore (fortunately he tolerates a harness and we either take him outside with it or under strict supervision). He also knows what doorhandles do, but fortunately can’t operate them himself.

    As for food fussiness, our cats amuse us too. There is a wet food brand called “Fussy Cat” here that Tabitha won’t eat at all and Whisper only under protest (and he’s the food-oriented one). Tabitha definitely prefers anything fish, even to the extent that she’ll voluntarily go to her dry food feeder (containing salmon-flavoured kibble) instead of eating the chicken or beef wet food. As for the loaf type foods, I don’t think she even recognises them as being edible! Fortunately Whisper has not worked out that human food is edible (and we plan to keep it that way), or he’d be intolerable at meal times.

  • Australis13@fedia.iotocats@lemmy.world•Tell us about your soul cat
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    3 months ago

    Mine shared her life with me for eighteen and half years from my childhood well into adulthood. She was a beautiful tortoiseshell with smaller patches of colour than the typical tortie or calico (one of her kittens was a typical calico, though).

    She was the matriach of our pets, but wasn’t bossy or aloof - she simply didn’t tolerate the dogs or the other cats annoying her, but was quite happy to sit at the door with them. She wasn’t really a lap cat like my current one is (who happily curls up my lap as soon as I sit down 90% of the time), but she did enjoy company (she preferred to walk around you whilst you petted her) and would go on walks with you.

    In her later life I no longer lived with my parents due to needing to move away due to university and then my job, but could not bring my cat with me (plus after over a decade living there with my family, it was better for her to stay with my parents in a familiar place and have me visit regularly). She got to sleep on my bed as she got older regardless of whether I was there or not. Towards the end she lost her sight and some of her hearing, but still knew who I was.

    She is why I know God answers prayers. About two weeks before she passed away, she was outside whilst a family member was doing chores and disappeared. My parents searched for her for the next two days but could not find her. I could not get home until the weekend, but searched for her as soon as I could. The Sunday morning (I was due to leave again that afternoon) I tried one final search and begged God to bring her back to me. On my walk back from the very last place I could think of to look, I saw her in the distance and ran to pick her up. She was alive, just lost - she was less than 100m from home. I can still remember how shocked my family was when I brought her to the door in my arms. A week or so later I got a call from my parents that she was starting to wander around in circles and that the vet recommended she be put to sleep (as an interim measure the vet gave her a mild sedative and pain relief to ensure she wasn’t suffering). It was too late in the day when I got the call to take her back to the vet, so I asked God to spare me from the decision. That night she passed away peacefully in her sleep.

    It was hard losing her (even now, many years later I still feel the pain of her loss). For the first few months that followed I dreamt about her several times (never in a distressing way; it was like my mind was trying to keep her alive). Over the next 6 months or so I thought I saw her out of the corner of my eye whenever I visited my parents. I knew I couldn’t get another cat at the time since (1) I was unable to keep one myself and (2) I wanted my cat back and it wouldn’t have been fair to a new one.

    It was years before I was in the position to get another cat and even then it wasn’t ideal (my wife and I were renting at the time and the landlord wasn’t keen on pets; since he was otherwise the ideal landlord I was reluctant to introduce any source of conflict), but that’s when our current two arrived. A neighbour who had been feeding a batch of stray cats (I think to entertain their grandchildren) fled the city during the COVID lockdowns and we suddenly had an influx of cats in our tiny backyard. I readily gained the trust of most of them and we took them to the RSPCA to be rehomed (all successfully were).

    We ended up keeping two of them - Whisper (a young male mackerel tabby about 8-9 months old at the time and such an incredibly friendly, social and intelligent cat) and Tabitha (then a 2-3 year old female brown torbie; she is almost certainly Whisper’s mother and I am pretty sure I know who the father is, although unfortunately I was never able to catch him). For Tabitha, it took two months to gain her trust (we decided we had to keep her as she would struggle to adjust to a new home and new people; the RSPCA even flagged her as having behavioural issues, although we’re pretty sure that’s because they washed her chin and she didn’t trust them after that). When we brought her home from the RSPCA, she wouldn’t come out of the carrier into the cat enclosure we had built for her and Whisper until I sat out there with her and spoke to her - it seems that the sound of my voice was enough to convince it was safe. She had a lot of separation anxiety early on and used Whisper as a “threat meter” for the first 6-12 months. Nowdays we have our own property and both Tabitha and Whisper clearly feel safe with us; Tabitha regularly climbs on to my lap for cuddles (and often then rolls over for belly rubs). Tabitha and Whisper are very different cats to my previous one, but very precious. Whisper is a gem who succeeded in winning over not only my wife (who had very little experience with cats previously and is a dog person) but my in-laws too!