If any of you don’t know us, we’re a chubby (very) amateur couple that likes online exhibitionism. We’ve been doing this since last year, and we love to share our (and her) videos. So go on, shoot, ask us anything you want, I’ll use emojis to differentiate who’s answering. Just don’t go to our DMs, we prefer public interactions
I have a bunch of questions here that I’ve copied below. I hope this is ok.
Questions about your clit:
- How sensitive is you clit? Can it take direct and intense stimulation, does it take only light stimulation directly, or can you only stimulate it through the hood?
- Does your clitoris stick out outside the hood normally or does it stay inside?
- How big would you say your clitoris is?
- In what ways do you like your clitoris to be stimulated?
- When you are aroused, what happens to your clit?
- When you are having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it throb? Does it stay the same?
- After your are done having an orgasm, what happens to your clit? Does it become sensitive, or does it stay the same?
- Are there any extra sensitive or less sensitive spots on your clitoris? Where?
- Have you ever injured or bruised your clit? How did that go?
Questions about orgasms:
- What does your standard orgasm feel like? How do you prefer to get there?
- Can you describe how the clitoral and the g-spot orgasm feel? (muscle tension, tingling sensations, etc.)
- Is it hard for you to reach multiple orgasms?
- Do multiple orgasms feel different than just one? How do they feel different?
- Is there a point where you have to “recharge” like men before you can have the next orgasm?
- Is it possible for you to stop your self from having an orgasm when you are having one?
- How have your orgasms changed with age (or if you are trans, how have they changed during transition)?
What kinks you enjoy that the other does not? Like you like bondage, she does not or the opposite.
Well we’re both very kinky and very sexually compatible so that’s not an issue, we have the same fetishes. I think the only exceptions are that I’m kinda interesting in footjobs or feet play in general. It’s not a kink of mine, I’m just curious. But she finds foot fetish kinda gross. On the other hand, she has a huge kink on age play and rape play/CNC. She’d want me to pretend I’m her father and she’s a child and to pretend to rape her. It’s not that I don’t like it, I find it very hot, but I’d have to be in the right mind space to do that, of not, I would feel like an abuser or something. Most of the time I feel like it would not be a good idea, but she really likes the idea of doing those.
I would never feel safe doing a CNC. I mean being the doer, being taken though I must admit, would be quite hot.
Yeah I feel quite the same most of the time, but tbh when I’m extremely horny and aroused I find the idea very hot (being the doer). So yeah I’d have to be in the right mindset and have a lot of safeguards to feel reassured that it’s consensual an I’m not abusing her
Who was the one that proposed to post here first, him or her?
👨: It was both I think, I suggested the idea as a joke but she said it would be hot, we checked some old videos and realized we really wanted to post them. The idea of people seeing us and getting aroused was amazing, and we discovered our new kink. We started on Reddit but got banned stupidly, and then searching for alternatives I discovered Lemmy so I suggested trying here, and the rest is history
How is that going so far? I find that Lemmy can’t really fill the gap. Many of the kinky places lie r4r are just not here.
Yeaaaaaahhh, you’re right. Don’t get me wrong, it’s good here, and you don’t get site-banned because Reddit thinks you’re a spammer for posting in like 5 subreddits in the same day while there are accounts that post in 10 subreddits in the same minute; but Reddit is still objectively better regarding content and community. Lemmy just doesn’t have enough people and enough participation, people like us get at most 15 upvotes and three or four comments per post, which can be discouraging some times, while some other baity posts from OF models get hundreds of upvotes and a lot of comments. Also as you said, there’s not as much communities here as Reddit, Lemmy has less variety (for example Lemmy doesn’t have an equivalent of couplesgonewildplus or couplesgonewildchubby, which is the kind of niche we want to be part of). As shitty as it is right now, Reddit is just the main place to go for NSFW communities, for better or for worse. Maybe we’ll try coming back next year, idk
Do you ever get recognized in public? And if so, how do folks react? And do you have any funny stories about people with the SOs recognizing you but not being able to place you immediately?
👨👧: Well, we are a faceless couple and are careful with our identities, plus we have a very reduced audience in our socials, so that hasn’t happened, and it’s for the better haha
Do you have a favourite angle for shooting ? how diffficult is it multitasking ( geting the camera in the right pov and trying to concentrate) ?
👨: I can answer this one because I’m the one who records most of the time. I think my favorite angle is cowgirl POV, I can put my phone upside down and it gets a good frame of her body, and because she’s doing the moving, I can hold the phone easier and get a good quality video (even so sometimes it’s hard to hold the phone still while I’m enjoying her riding haha). Sometimes we try putting the phone in a chair or table, but of course that only works if the object we put the phone on is near enough and the angle gives a good look of the action. We have some standing videos we recorded using a chair and I think they turned out good. I’m thinking of getting a tripod sometime, to make it easier. And yeah, multitasking is hard, more so in positions where I do all the movements, like missionary or doggy. I have to check the phone every now and then and sometimes I end up recording the bed instead of our bodies haha. But it’s part of being amateur I think, I try not to distract me too much when I record, in the end the main idea is to enjoy first, and record for the internet second, not the other way around
good practice make perfect, enjoy the Practice!
Thanks 🙌
