• PrettyFlyForAPornGuy@lemmynsfw.comOP
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        4 days ago

        service can be as simple as running someone a bath, cooking a dinner, massaging a back.

        you don’t have don a gimp suit with an inverted strapon to “serve” someone you love

        • MaybeALittleBitWeird@lemmynsfw.com
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          4 days ago

          Yes, I’m actually serviced oriented as a sub so I’m well aware. I have a partner who is vanilla and not dominant in the slightest. It’s not exactly possible to be in a committed relationship and “serve” someone else full time.

          • Lightor@lemmy.world
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            4 days ago

            I’m dom and my wife is switch. I think the best way is to have sessions or days set aside for it. Lifestyle dom/sub can be hot but like most things you gotta give it breaks to keep it fresh. Just gives room to try other things.