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minus-squareagamemnonymous@sh.itjust.workslinkfedilinkarrow-up2·17 days agoRight, but after enough failures the defeat becomes demoralizing. I’m not saying it isn’t self-destructive, but human nature frequently is.
minus-squarejjjalljs@ttrpg.networklinkfedilinkarrow-up2·17 days agoYeah, can’t disagree with that. When I give people dating app advice, I tell them if they don’t have the emotional resources to full-ass it, delete the app. Half-assing it is likely going to make things worse. But humans aren’t rational creatures.
Right, but after enough failures the defeat becomes demoralizing. I’m not saying it isn’t self-destructive, but human nature frequently is.
Yeah, can’t disagree with that.
When I give people dating app advice, I tell them if they don’t have the emotional resources to full-ass it, delete the app. Half-assing it is likely going to make things worse.
But humans aren’t rational creatures.